What is your definition of "a lot" of sexual partners?

What are ya'll talking about?

 

English, m f , do you speak it?

 

this w****/slut phrase is bullsht. world wide it's accepted for guys to be w****/sluts and brag about their conquests, but it's not ok for women to enjoy sex. why is one sex praised for how many people they slept with and the other frowned upon? that's a double standard. i don't care how many guys my girls been with, as long as i don't catch any effin std's im happy.

i love virgins as much as the next person, but i prefer a girl who has experience over a girl who has no idea what she's doing.

 

So, a girl that has sex with the same man for 5 years is not experienced?

 

She's also not a virgin.

 

It has been said before, guys have to put in a lot of groundwork to get sex. For some, more than others. Girls on the other hand, can get some with a snap of a finger if they really wanted to. Let's be real, guys will easily give it up. Girls, don't give it up that easy. So for a lot of guys, it really does feel like a conquest. Espeically for the fellas that don't get as much sex as the Pimps on Clutchfans.

Part of the reason it's a double standard has to due with girls themselves. In my opinion, they're the main ones who call other girls sluts/whores because they've slept with a lot of men. If they didn't look at it as it being so bad, then there wouldn't be a double standard. Wouldn't it be a better place if girls were bragging to their girl friends about how many dudes she banged?

LOL, why can't all girls be as fun as you?

 

Well the definition of "a lot" depends if you talking about guys vs. girls...Double standard, yes, which sucks, but unfortunately, that's the way it is sometimes...

For example, could I be considered a man-w**** if I was intimate with more than 25 girls in a lifetime (36 years)...Maybe not...but if it was 25 girls within the last 3 years, maybe...If this was for a girl, either answer would probably be whorish...

Put it another way, would you rather have someone who's had sex 1000 times in her life with 5 guys or someone that's had sex 1000 times with 30 guys...Does it matter...I'm a hipocrit, so it would matter to me...i'd choose the former....

I'm of the opinion that I like a woman who's experienced...I just don't want to know if she's been with 50 plus guys...I think everyone isn't honest when asked the question...I usually just say its a lot as honestly, I don't remember the number, but it's a lot...In a relationship, guys say it matters, but does it really...As long as she's with you, you're "into each other", she's clean and its good...

 

0 = not enough
1 = about right
>1 = a lot

 

From my experience, some girls make you work for it because they don't want you to think their easy. It's not necessarily true they don't want to sleep with you or their trying to make it difficult on you. They just don't want to be labeled as a slut.