you`re only in high school for 4 years. bang as many chicks as possible, you`ll be glad you did when you look back in 10 years.
Just invite her to the Pants Party ... It works every time.. here's how it gets done: <object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZKgurjb8TCs?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZKgurjb8TCs?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>
Talk to her. If you don't, you're going to keep having this problem communicating with the Fair Sex. I'll add this... my experience visiting friends in Canada leads me to believe that your ethnic background really doesn't matter. Everyone I met was very friendly and very gracious, even though I was from a foreign country... Texas.
Sigh! Same thing with me lol Freshman year I didn't care what people thought about me I would talk to a lot of girls I knew coming from middle school and crap like that. But I saw when I started talking to them they didn't want to engage in a conversation with me. So I thought imma just be quiet and if they ask me a question then I'll engage in a conversation with them. Well that didn't work it seemed liked no girls wanted to talk to me so I just became shy around them. Then the worst I was a fairly "popular guy" but I was becoming timid and then summer came and no one wanted to hag out with me i even didn't talk to my bestfriend that summer. So then my WHOLE sophomore year SUCKED Now it's my junior year (my only other good friend from highschool moved) and I just want to re-gain/ meet new people and or friends but I'm just to timid and I don't know how/ or what to do. So, anyways there's this girl I think is cute in two of my classes and sits next to me in one. I've talked to hear a couple times 95% of the time about school. I don't want to talk about school anymore but I still want to talk to her! I just don't know what to say and I'm afraid this year and my senior year will be like my sophomore year if I don't start talking to new people. Please, anythoughts on how to start or engage a conversation with a girl And Any tips to help me start talking to my old friends again?
Tell her you are Yao Ming's cousin. Tell her to come over to your house for free Rockets tickets. Then, you can show her Mr. Wang.
A hot chick in high school doesn't know she's hot. Thats why you bang her best friend no matter how hot she isn't... it just makes the other one think she's not up to snuff. You've gotta create a massive misdirection before a chick will ever even lay eyes on your penis.
Just do it the old fashioned way. Club her in the back of the head and drag her back to your cave. Don't forget to chain her to a boulder, that's how my last one escaped.... True story.
high school and college chicks are the easiest to bang. well i only dealt with asian chicks my entire life so i can only speak for them. and girls i know who are hot, KNOW they're hot. so they'll just laugh at you if you tryna bang their ugly friend. hell, they'll encourage it b/c their friend needs help. so again, my advice for the OP is just to open your damn mouth and start a damn conversation instead of trying to overthink the situation. believe it or not, high school girls WANT a boyfriend.
All I'm trying to do is lower the poor kids expectations so he realizes that he can still get plenty laid by the time he graduates. Theres no shame in switching to a lower difficulty, holmes.
be all like "are you parking meter, because you got fine written all over you" if that doesn't work then it just wasn't meant to be..... it always works
Hey CC3, it's not your job to make excuses why women wouldn't want to sleep with you, they can do that themselves.
As an Asian guy I feel for you but here is the key. Women, practically all women of any race, admire self confidence. I can understand your infatuated and your also afraid of rejection but you have to put that out of your mind and be confident. If you get shot down you get shot down but in a lot of ways it is better to live with the fact that you tried rather than the regret of what might have been. Also as someone who is a lot older than you are let me give you a bit of sage wisdom to someone your age. Don't put the p***y on a pedestal. I know you think you are in love with this girl, can't stop thinking about her, you feel nauseous around her and so on but honestly there are a lot of women out there and the more you get worked up about her the harder it will be to approach her and really any other women. I am not saying that you should just forget her, for all I know maybe she is the one for you and if you can get with her you will be happily ever after. That is a big "if" and if you can't even talk to her because you are so nervous you will never get to that stage. If you can tell yourself there will be others you will actually find it easier to talk to her and your chances with her will actually improve since you have taken her off the pedestal to the level where you can talk to her. Regarding the race thing. I don't want to brag but I have dated a fair share of white women, more than I have Asian women, and while race is still an issue I think its become much less so than it did when I was your age. When I was in my teens and early 20's a lot was made about how Asian women had been sexualized in Western culture while Asian men had been been largely desexualized. Thanks to guys like John Cho though that isn't so much of a problem and believe it or not there actually are some white women out there who prefer Asian men. Obviously the girl you are interested in may or may not be that way but don't let being Asian stop you from approaching non-Asian women. As for your accent I can't help you there but you might want to try some self-deprecating humor with it. Good luck and remember if things don't work out with this girl always remember there are more.
Just go up to her and tell her you think shes beautiful and after she say thank you tell her you're welcome and walk away. After that the time yall see each other she will most likey say something to you.
Might as well quit cf.net first, or at least spend lesser time here. I think you need to talk to genuine human beings more, regardless of male or female, speaking in English or Chinese.
