first of all, we need pics of you and her to properly evaluate your situation. but if she seems interested then just start with hello or herro and casually ask her out for lunch. something along the lines of "i'm hungry. i'm gonna head out to [insert good restaurant or eatery]. you wanna grab a bite at [said place]? i'm gonna go. you're more than welcome to join me." you're not pressuring her so much yet you're still asking her out. she isn't sure if it's a "date" b/c it sounds harmless. and it is harmless. just 2 ppl grabbing lunch at a good place. once you get her to go, the rest is up to you. if she doesnt like the place you recommend then ask her what she likes and do that. you can normally judge by her reaction whether or not she really is interested. if she pulls the boyfriend line then just tell her your great uncle grows plantains and uses the peels for his toupee. after which she will reply "what?!" then you reply, "oh sorry, i thought we were talking about things that don't matter."
You could go for it now, or live the rest of your life wondering what if. Just introduce yourself to her. Smile, make eye contact, and tell her your name. If she's interested in you she'll show it. Get to know each other better. Find out what she's into and invite her to something you would both enjoy. It can even be an after school activity.
Talk to her. I'm an Asian guy and my current GF is white and I met her in class. I asked her if she wanted to do a project together and that's how it all started.
Just go for it. If she turns you down there are over 3 billion other women out there in the world. You'll always end up alone if you never even take a chance. And trust me, the more you do it the easier it gets and the more your confidence goes up. I also agree with the person that said people toss the word love out there too easily. You don't know her and at this point she's just an infatuation of yours. Take her off the pedestal you placed her on and go for it.
i don't know why people fear rejection. *******, everybody will get rejected once or two (if not more) in their lifetime. you like someone, go for it. if she says no, move on to the next chick. i think once you get your first rejection out of the way, the fear will die down.
It would have been much easier to talk to her when she sat next to you in class. In a year you won't go to the same high school. Do you notice a pattern? Treat rejection as a learning experience. It can break you or make you.
if it's going to break you, you're going to be a failure in life anyways. might as well speed up the failing process. for others, it'll force you get over your damn shyness and insecurity. you ain't gonna pick up a chick if you ain't gonna holla at a chick.
No need to talk to her mate!!!! Just throw her in a burlap sack and take her home the old fashion way...
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I'm in a similar situation; I usually run into the chick often and we small talk. This time I'm hoping I can see her again and maybe ask if we can hang out. I'm shy too, but if there is one thing I've learned; you gotta PUSH IT. lol ask her out for some coffee maybe?
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