Yea. Is this just a thread full of guys without girl friends? You people know that you can be friends w/ ppl w/o wanting to bang them, right?
Yo dawg, I heard you like your girlfriend and you like having girl friends, so we put some friends on your girlfriend.
I agree with you 500%. I told her these guys are trying to get in her pants...she thinks they are harmless and like "gay friends". At that point she went to hang out with them and lied to me about it the day after I got in a scuffle with one of them. That was the last straw and I basically haven't talked to her since. She has tried contacting me but I'm fed up. you're right, she should have more respect for me. ANY girl that I was friends with that she ever had any issues with...I basically quit talking to them all together after a ramp down. And I did it because I really didn't care about those girls...I cared about her.
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I guess i'm the minority. I never really cared. Of course, I never got punked like in the OPs situation, e.g. ignored by the guys while they talked to my GF. In the most blatant case of a guy hovering, I just enjoyed the awkwardness. As for the guys being flabbergasted about the idea of being friends with a woman...I don't get that at all. I guess it is a maturity issue, like imadrummer referenced, but I had no problems being friendly with a girl regardless of potential sexy time with them.
i find it to be a good thing......gets her out of my hair for a while so i can allocate some time to the new prospects
Not true. . . .the other way is if you already did the deed. After that . .you can be friends Most guys would bang their female friends in a heart beat too LOL *shrug* IF she riding the new one. . . I could not care less cause that means I am looking at a new ride myself Uh oh! Lying to you to hang with them . . . .JJEEEZZZZ . . never a good sign You might wanna get in contact with her soon . . . . or start riding solo I don't mind male friends. .. I have too many female friends but . . . when you gotta lie about being with them . .that is an issue Rocket River
There are two who are engaged that are constantly talking to my woman. I don't say anything about it or try to monitor any of it because I trust her of course, but it's just ridiculous. I'm not going to say I've never hit on a woman in a relationship, but it was never me hanging by her side hoping for something to go wrong; it was more like just testing the waters and either making a move or, more likely (MUCH more likely), realizing nothing would happen and move on.
MY two previous relationships are with two of my best female friends, it works out sometimes believe it or not. Friendzone being impossible to break is a myth.
The key is to let those guy friends buy her drinks so you don't have to. Then swoop back in and show them who's the boss.
Your doing the right thing bro. Me and my girl have got into it before over those issues and eventually she realized that I was right all of her supposed guy friends where not really her friends at all. I don't know how old you are but I'm 30 and if you guys are both young give her another chance. Maybe she is just naive and doesn't know any better. Given her the choice either she let's her loser guy friends go or your gone.
Wait what. That's not true at all. Which guy in the world hasn't had a bunch of female friends in their lives. Would we bang them if we had the chance to, yes, but that doesn't mean that's all of our intentions are when are hang out with them.
Sounds to me either she likes stringing them along (gives her the attention she craves) or she's already sleeping around.
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You have some issues.... jealousy and insecurities. Having said that, I am not sure why you are upset at your girlfriend's male friends. If you are upset at anyone it should be your girlfriend.
