Would you like it if your girlfriend was bi curious?

You do this while opening up the door to threesomes. If you are supportive in this and marry her...you'll be having threesomes for the rest of your life. Believe me, you'll be kicking yourself down the road if you don't take advantage of this.

 

Threesome.

Done Deal.

 

Miss Japan 2008 and Miss Trinidad 2008



most preferable approach

 

Agreed.... the situation is very simple. She is still young (23 yrs old) and is curious. If you try to stop her or voice your opposition she will either resent you, or she will go and do it behind your back.

If you encourage it, then there is the possibility that she will want to be bisexual or in an open relationship long term. However there is also the possibility she does it once or a few times and never does it again.

You have to give her props for being honest and open for you. Really the only choice you have to accept it or leave her.

 

I like girls - that doesn't mean that I'm going to screw every (or ANY) hot woman since I'm in a committed relationship.

If she's committed to you - she shouldn't be doing anything with any other man or woman. That's what commitment is all about.

If you'd be cool having a threesome with her and another woman...just keep in mind that from HER perspective it could be the same type of thing as having sex with you and another man. She's acting out on her sexual fantasies...but she's ALSO cheating on you with a gender she likes - which could be either in this case.

The horny 2-girls-one-time is the only idea that clouds the whole issue of cheating. But to me, it's very clear. This would be cheating.

 

Disagree. Cheating is when you break the understood set of rules governing your relationship, be it breaking a pact of monogamy, an emotional affair, or eating meat in a vegan household.

Mutually reforming the boundaries of your relationship and then acting within those boundaries is not cheating.

 

Would you like it if your nuts lived atop God's uvula?

Yeah, easy answer.

 

A "three-way" or no way!

 

Wow, no sale. All I can see is a powdery naked girl shoveling cheetos into a wastebasket, then dusting herself off like Ricky Henderson; right before the awkardest conversation in roommate history.

 

Post count in this thread is 30% No homo

 

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You gotta admit... That's a funny ass picture...

 

Just talk to her, if you guys are down with it...have a great time.

But if you stick the other girl, it could end what you have now.

Just talk it out...lots of danger which is what makes it fun.

DD

 

I've dated a girl on and off for the past year who is very actively bisexual. When we're together, we will often scout women at bars and such together. We prefer mostly our own company, but if we can add an attractive, responsible girl to the mix, why not. When we're not together, she mostly sticks to guys, and I think that she only sees herself as being able to support a relationship with a male. Not a female.

I really do like this girl on a very deep level, and I could very much picture myself marrying her. But it would take a several more years to confirm that. We are very close no doubt. She has no interest in additional men, thankfully. I think that in her head, she feels that it is less ambiguous/dangerous to bring another girl in, since it's two vessels instead of two seeds. Kind of a weird psychological/societal double standard, but I tend to agree with her.

 

FMM is not the best but it can be done without being gay.

1. Take turns. "Tag-Team"
2. One get's a BJ, while the other is hitting it. The only issue here is eye contact with your friend, but this can easily be remedied by dimming the lights. High fiving here is acceptable.
3. Never cross the streams.

 

Sounds like you got it figured out man.

 

Your life, your relationship is what you make it.

This could be great or this could be heartache. I think I would have to give it go but retain a little emotional reserve so I didn't get crushed, you know, give it a while before you call all in with the "I love you's". And, I would tell her exactly that, no lies, no half-truths.

You may not end up with the woman of your dreams but you probably will get some memories that will warm your golden years.

Be sure to come back and post in this thread again in a couple of months.
Us old married men can get a lot of mileage out of it too.

 

Heres one thing you have to think about. She invites you to watch. Then she invites you to join. You think its cool so you do it. Then she suggests well since we had a 3 some with another chick I wanna have a 3 some with another dude. How are you going to react to that?

I couldnt take it. Especially if you're thinking about marring her in the future. Dont do it dude.

Also something you have to worry about is that she is easily persuaded by her friends. If shes willing to jump into this just because some friends said it was fun id think about what else they can convince her of in the future. Thats how problems start.

If you go for it, dont expect to marry her. Just my .02. Also im engaged to be married this summer if that means anything.

 

^^^^Props to you dude. Well done.