Would you like it if your girlfriend was bi curious?

those are the sluttiest kinds

 

You'd be bothered if people on the internet called you gay?

Come on dudebro, we can discuss this like reasonable individuals.


No ho-moes.

 

Just be honest with her. It's pointless to try to manipulate the situation unnaturally into a desired result. Whether you want to end up with her or not is irrelevant. What will be will be man.

 

I'm no expert on this, and I'll try to give my opinion as modestly as I can, but if she's that young do you really think she's ready to settle down herself? This isn't a one way street, where you can think to yourself "Yes, she suits me, I think I'll have her..." and then not pay attention to whether or not you suit her or if she's thinking long term either.

If she's coming to you with the notion of pursuing this bi-curious fantasy... I have to question where her priorities are right now. Most people kind of figure themselves out by 23 (sexually, that is). If she wants to see what it's like, what is her real goal? Why would she be doing it, if it wasn't to see if it was right for her or not? If she's doing it to see if she enjoys it, then what will that lead to in the future? If she does it and doesn't enjoy it, then you'll just end up wondering why she had to do it in the first place.

I think your best bet is the confront her with how you really feel about the situation, and don't come off as insecure, but more worried about your relationship. Maybe you should communicate to her that you think your guys' relationship could take a more serious twist in the future, and you don't know how this would change/alter that.

Anyone with more experience should feel free to step in and tell me this **** is wrong while you can, I don't want to be giving bad advice.

 

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If you are making this girl gay, I would start buying some sex books and learn a few things before you lose her completely to another woman. ;-)

 

While we're beating dead horses...

Can we get rid of mayzar jokes, That's what she said jokes, emoticons, spanish, Mexican national team comments not involving trashing them, and....ok the majority of these can be taken care of with one quick click. Think about it Clutch.

But yeah, the constant forcing of a meme on here is downright silly sometimes. All forums are guilty of it to some extent, but eventually the meme dies and another one replaces it for a few days/weeks. We're still going on with the same unfunny jokes from months/years ago. If they were funny/actually were based on something worth mocking/joking (It's summer / maybe maybe no) then there's a place for them, but even then, if it's used in every thread, it gets old and tired fast.

What I'm saying is...creativity people. Use it.

 

Don't be insecure, she's offering up threesomes to you on a silver platter.

 

thats what she said for sure, but then again, only swoly uses that one. Emoticons..ehh, give or take.
hispanic?
leave mayzar out of this...that's like getting rid of sura faints

 

point of clarification...you said she invited you. Can you touch the other girl too? or you just have to watch?

either way...i still think some E is the way to go.

 

Seriously... No threesome, NO WAY!!! :grin:


Hit it and quit it!

 

Dont save her ..she dont wanna be saved.....Dont save her ..she dont wanna be saved.....

Seriously ...shes not wifey material man...just enjoy the threesome. Get in get off get out....

 

LMAO :grin:

 

Well, it can absolutely cause a huge mess. Don't listen to the guys saying "go for it bro" they are probably 15. It's a big deal. There is much to consider. I have a friend I've known for over 20 years,(I swear! A friend really not me) he is with a much younger girl and they began to experiment, with girls, then girls were not enough for her so they started to add guys. It caused much drama, and although they did get through it and are married, it took years and years to get over and give up the things they brought on. So anyway it's very very complicated, and if you tell her no, will she do it behind your back? Man I don't know about you, but when it comes down to real love, I don't share

 

I've been with and been friends with many girls who were bi or played around, and they were probably less sexually hung up than those that weren't...but still. I think 23 is still more than young enough to sexually explore.

If she's asking your permission, I wouldn't worry too much about it. At the same time I think all relationships need parity.

I'm assuming you are strictly butter side up, and if you aren't, then you probably wouldn't be asking advice in the first place.

So I leave you with this: If she wants to have guiltless sex with some girl you should be able to as well. Girls are turned on by guys that aren't jealous. Shrug it off like you don't care and she'll probably never leave you.

 

If she's serious about it, she's going to do it with our without you. Why not enjoy the ride. Just make sure you a) let them focus on each other, and b) if invited to partake, "finish" on or in your girl and not her friend. Remember, this is her fantasy, not yours.

 

The thing is finding real or good E. Few and very far between...

 

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If a girl can go muff diving on other girls on your time

A man can say No Homo

Period

If a girl just gets back from her rug munch romp, then tells me "Dont Say "No Homo", thats dumb", her belongings are out on the front porch the same night.


As long as its done before its time to raise kids I say....as long as its BEFORE the nuptials. And maybe after the kids are in junior high...