No, you didn't use vulgar language, but given the "professionalism" of this website, your vulgar descriptions, while funny, may only succeed in getting this thread closed down. That is what he was referring to.
That's a flick I've watched a couple of dozen times at least, and have on DVD, so I can't believe I missed the "Vincent" reference. And I don't have a problem with the language, but that's not all he trotted out and I've seen good threads derailed before because of similar things. Cut me some slack. I'm only trying to keep it open. The "permanently" was meant in regards to this thread. I could care less what he wants to say, but I would be steamed if he got it closed.
Don't worry Deckard, if the thread wasn't closed down after those pics, it's not getting closed. I've used language a lot worse than "bust a nut" and "jerk off" in threads before... bust a nut bust a nut grab a bag of CornNuts and bust a nut They're lightly toasted and hard as well Enjoy yourself, we won't tell...
after thinking about it, it depends on the situation. I think it would be neat to have a friend in the adult industry. MacJag said she seemed intelligent. BUt dating, I don't quite know yet. How would you like to bring her home to your parents. MacJag : Mom this is so-and-so. Mom : How are you doing? Nice to meet you. Pornstar : I am doing wonderful, you have a wonderful house, and such a great son. Macjag : Dad this is so-and-so. Dad : How you doing? .... (long pause) Now where Have I seen you? But seriously, it depends. Get to know her some. Good Luck with everything.
MacBeth, You're already going to meet her for a drink, so good for you. I would jump at the chance to meet a well-educated, articulate p*rn star. I'll be honest, I'm fascinated in how they reconcile themselves with their profession, and how much it impinges into their daily life (you've already said that there were some guys leering at her when you saw her). Certainly more interesting than a "normal" date. Everyone here is getting a bit carried away (what would you expect?), it's not as though you're planning to propose marriage. I hope you have/had a good time. Oh, and stop posting about it here. Walls have ears. Oh, and in response to the earlier post, not all liberals get the hot chicks! Well not this one at least
For selfish reasons I'll disagree with those who say stop posting about it here. If she gets upset with you talking about her job, and your attraction to her on a website, while at the sametime you are coping with her profession, which enables large numbers of people to see her being intimate with a number of men, and possibly women, then I think something is wrong. She is showing a much more intimate side of herself to the public, than any conversation on this website, especially since, as you say, you don't even name her. Also people discuss relationships and possibilities of them all the time. Why should this BBS community be any different? But again, part of my rationale probably comes from my curiosity in the who situation.
Okay....Update...a lot to cover, sort of, so bear with me; Sober reflection this morning was that I had made a mistake in calling her. I had back and forth feelings about this, as I still felt that it was hypocritical, but also felt that to try and overcome that feeling just to prove that I'm not a hypocrite would be to use ...er...this woman as an unwilling and unwitting subordinate to my own personal morality play. Had decided that I was pretty sure that I had decided to think about considering deciding to call her and cancel... And then she called. Was free, said what a nice day it was, and did I want to go for a walk, or something. I then noticed what a nice day it was, in fact. And a walk suddenly but quite profoundly seemed like a splendid idea... So that's what we did...for a while. And we talked...and we talked about quite a bit. Ok here it gets a little complicated. The Good: She's cool. Not just bright, or hot, but cool. Nice. Nothing weird or unusual if you forget what she does, which I did sometimes for as long as a few minutes at a time....ok, kidding. But she's cool. I think that there are 5 kinds of attraction; physical, emotional, intellectual, sexual, and spiritual. I was definitely feeling at least 2 or 3, which is unusual for me. Things went well. The Bad: A few bad moments...for one thing she said that the guys on the subway were not the reason she came over, she thought I was 'striking'...which made it feel less organic, more standard pick-upish. And she's bright, but not really, really bright. I'm not sure I feel attraction that way as much as I'd hoped. But...and this is where I have to apologize to you guys, who have been wonderful, and I want to address a few of you singularly, but now that she's become more of a person to me, I have to admit that, in a way, I feel a bit bad for almost saying who she is, and I wish I had left that more vague. She is one of the three I mentioned, but I am, (sorry) not going to ever give any more than that. I can actually imagine her reading about herself now, although it's a stretch, and I wouldn't want to hurt her or make her feel like I talked about her like a thing rather than a person. the Awesome: We were honest with each other...about what we're looking for and not looking for. I told her that I'm not looking for anything remotely serious, and although I didn't mention my tenure issue, said I had a hard time imagining any kind of relationship with someone who spends most of the time in California. It was all very light hearted, but it was said. She said that she wasn't the type to rule things out like that, but that she was cool with what I said, and had issues of her own going on anyways...Just was attracted to me, and wanted to have someone in this city whom she could have fun with... I said I was cool with that, and we talked about sexual friendships, and pretty much agreed that that's what we could have...When she's in town, we can have a good time...hit a movie, have a bite, have...fun. That kind of thing. It's great; I was honest, and it ends up that we're in about the same place re: the most we could realistically want from each other. About the other stuff...the stuff some of you are dying to know...well, maybe another time. I feel that I have some sort of balance with this. I didn't really address the p*rn issue directly, although she mentioned it a few times, but I also was honest about limitations...and it ends up well, with a new 'friend'. And she's very, very, very, very, very, very hot. I don't feel hypocritical...I've gotten through the issue to see her more as a person than as a proffession. I'm still not resolved on that...but it doesn't appear that my limitations about it ( relationship ) need to be an issue, and we can just enjoy each other when we can. She's fun. And she does this thing with her.... Joking..lol I read over this and the tone sounds a lot more serious than the day was...it was just fun, really. But we did clear the way for more fun without getting a lot of dishonest crap in it's way. She's a very happy, very cool, very sexual person, confident and fun. That's all, and that's enough. A few issues...Ok, I will address specific individuals who really helped, but a few general notes... Re: The whole other guys with huge, er, endowments issue which keeps cropping up...I tried to be subtle about this, but it apparently didn't take...So let me sort of clear this up without being vulgar...It's an all male site, or pretty much, so I'm not trying to impress anyone...but you guys can relax about that issue...I am, well, I have said that I'm very lucky in some ways...Down there is one of them...cool? I feel that I have opened up my heart in a way in here, especially now, so this shouldn't be a big deal...heh... About 1000 guys, etc. I have been a very active sexual person in my life, as I'm sure many of you have. I think that to try and keep score would be hard, and to apply that standard to another person would be unfair..I think that part of my issue with the whole thing was this sort of underneath assumption that there had to be a catch...That p*rn stars really deep down think it's wrong, but do it for the money, or that they have issues. But I don't think that that is the case here...I think she enjoys that part of life, and can get paid for it. She compared it to an athlete who gets paid to do something he would do for fun anyways...Not a bad analogy. About my assumptions re: her assumptions...Yeah, it was probably there...and it might have been accurate. She's very sexual, and very open about it. She was the one who steered the conversation that way...but it was human, not plastic. She enoys the physical side of life...enough said. I have friends who are a lot more so, and less subtle about it. Re: Tenure...we're going to be friends who get physical..I have quite a few like that, and this one, while possibly having some more interesting aspects in some ways, shouldn't become an effect on my life any more than any of those. I have really relaxed about this. In the end...I'm happy...I had a great time...I will have more in the future...A general thank you to all who helped. I will be quite willing to answer any questions that don't try and pin me down on whichever of the three it is...Pick whichever one you want it to be,and go with that. I'm sure they're all cool..Oh, yeah...to make you guys somewhat jealous, she said I was welcome to visit her in California, and that she and many of her..er..known friends were very open minded, and that she thinks that a lot of them would like me..... ...Not sure how serious she was, am not really interested, but a guy can have fun with a thought...... PEACE JAG
MacB, Cheers for the update. After reading that I have come to one conclusion: It isn't "liberals get the hot chicks", it's "one liberal gets all the hot chicks!"
Excellent, MacBeth. Go for it with gusto, place the digital camera in a prime location, and (most importantly) POST THE PHOTOS ON THIS BBS!! J/K...have fun and wrap that willie!!
good for you JAG. glad it turned out well. and if you ever need someone to make a trip down to cali with you...just give me a call...
Ok..I was eating pizza, and actually spit it out when i read this. Hilarious.... Actually mean this:LMAO!!!!!!! BTW...I'm not that bad, am I?
