Brotha, I know how it feels. It's like once they know they've got you on the hook, it's pretty much just game over. You two text back and forth for a while. Then she starts ignoring your texts, thus leading to a big WTF in your head. Then she starts texting you again after you ignore her for a while and BAM the vicious cycle renews once again. You never get it in but she offers "previews" if you know what I mean. Truth is, you've just gotta look at yourself and say is it really worth it? And I promise you 9 times out of 10 it ain't. Let them come to you if you know how to spit the game properly.
Been down this road, then met someone, got married, had sex any time I wanted, then I had a child, and then we grew apart, blah blah, I am now divorced. There are times that I do miss it but then I think about the mess my life is and I am thankful that I am single. My dad used to say to me all the time that guys get in trouble when they let the little head think for the big head. Turned out he was right as i am living proof of this.
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i don't blame hot girls for abusing guys. who doesn't like attention and free stuff? its annoying as **** but i blame the dude not the chick for letting himself get played.
If you want to be able to get a woman whenever you want you need to get married. Then you will be fighting them off all of the time. In public. At work. Even after you have reported them to HR. Chicks are crazy. I guess the logic is "someone else thought he was good enough to marry! And now he is unavailable to me! Oh no!!!! Now I must have him!". Just crazy. So, uh...marry a not completely crazy chick (very hard I know) and then your cup will runethnover with the ladies.
Or just buy a cheap wedding band and put it on before you go to the club. I guess a lot of women long for the stability and maturity that a married man exudes, but they can't get their own lives together enough to attract one so they do the next best thing and try and grab someone else's instead.
Back in college I had a female situation very much like this. We worked together and I was in a constant battle with other guys for her attention/vagina. And oh boy did she tease. I was 21 and she was 17 (started college early) and she had the kind of father who just always looked like he wanted to murder everyone. Her: "Sometimes I just wish I had a guy to sleep with whenever I wanted and have no other attachments." Me: "Well, I'm single right now and could help you out..." Her: "Haha. Yeah. I know." *walks away* Her: "Most of the time I walk around in my apartment nearly naked." Me: [thinking about it for the next few weeks] "Should I get the apartment next door and drill a peep hole? What are the costs/risks/fines/jailtime associated with that?" I never got any, but it's OK because she dropped out of college, started doing some hard drugs, and is now with some older guy who has money. No more want.
