Since you are looking for the attractive ones in particular, often this is what you are going to get. Hate to say it, but ladder theory. And not about you necessarily, but the ones who have always known they have a lot of choices tend to be spoiled b!tches, because they can. I understand if physical attractiveness is important to you... if there are any physical types of women that you might find attractive but your friends might not, then you would still get the attractiveness but have a lot less attitude to deal with because she was not everybody's "type". But if you want to go in with all the competition to get the best looking ones, then best of luck to you. dmc89 had some good advice for ways to meet and talk to women that work a lot better than the bar scene.
Your post reads like a laundry list of excuses to not put yourself out there. You're not beginning to feel you just shouldn't try -- you just weren't trying to begin with.
I spend half the night talking to some girl who's looking around the room to see if there's somebody else who's more important she should be talking to. And it's like I'm supposed to be all happy 'cause she's wearing a backpack, you know? And half of them are just nasty skanks who wouldn't be nothing except they're surrounded by a bunch of drunken horny assholes. And I'm gonna tell you something T. Are you listening? I'm not gonna be one of those assholes. Alright?
Lol... Men complaining about attractive girls screwing with their heads is like women complaining about douchebag dude's with money treating them badly and never committing.
Trust me on this. I don't know from personal experience, but have a friend of a friend who inherited 9.5 million in 2005 and he can't get girls off him. He's in his mid 40's, not particularly attractive and banging chicks in still college. There's one thing about a girl saying money don't matter, but it's harder for her to say that during a weekend getaway in Paris at a 5 star hotel. He sees no reason to get marry. Sure, there's girls that won't respond to his money, but that's like 1 in 5 and he just moves on. That's your answer my friend. Wealth trumps looks, youth or charisma any day, but I mean A LOT of wealth.
It's even worst if you're in the military where it's a sausage fest lol. Even the not attractive females get hit on by at least a handful of desperate guys.
It's their nature to manipulate and choose among the competitions so only solution is to stand out. Get stronger, smarter, and definitely richer. It's a jungle. Go hunt your women and cave them
Actually, let me rephrased what I said to clarify my meaning with women and money. It's a bit insulting to suggest most women are whores. With the rich guy, it's not about girls attracted to his money directly, but rather of what the money can do indirectly. It gives him the freedom to express himself "romantically" in ways women respond to. I mean; a weekend in Paris is romantic (as oppose to the money itself that bought it) or just going to a Broadway play on a whim in NYC or a a surprise 2 karat ring. It's hard to explain, but most of the time, it's not the money that buys women, it's the freedom that money affords that's effective. This of course suggest some work is involved, though not much... just follow the cliches.
Crafty men can duplicate without the $$$. Weekend in Paris? Nice French Restaurants back to back nights while pointing out how every cellphone tower looks like the eiffel tower. Broadway play in NYC? Local Theater plays/musicals can be just as good! 2 karat ring? $0.25 Ring from those twisty kiddo machines
Look up the many examples of "Women Logic" memes out there to feel better about it. And, no. Everyone born uses every trick in their disposal for advantage and leverage. Women aren't much nicer than guys if at all, just more delicate in their motives.
this is very good advice. if people followed these types of goals then threads like these can be dedicated to better topics. just curious, does your moniker suggest that you were born in the year 1989? If so, you must be a a very high-achieving young person.
