Oh. Figures. In that case... You're sadly mistaken if you think all people show their true colors before they get married. You don't know me or my ex, so don't try to tell me I'm making her life hard. People like you that lump all guys as woman haters are just as bad as guys that label all women as b****es, so save it until you have to deal with what I do.
I will say this... It always blows my mind when I hear about people who have been married more than once getting married again (especially those people who have been married 3 or more times). But I guess you can say it is different strokes for different folks. Personally, if my marriage does not work out, I could NOT see myself ever getting married again. I would probably take a year or so off from dating and eventually get back in the dating scene. But the relationship would never progress to marriage, you can be damn sure about that.
you know what irks me about some marriages? when one party really does show his/her true colors before marriage, yet the other party chooses to still get married, and then b****es about those "true colors". what the hell did you expect?
Also wanted to add that she's nothing like that. You should stop taking things so personlly Talon. I didn't see any part of astrorockette's post that was aimed directly at you. And with me, I can promise you right now that she'll never have to deal with whatever the hell it is that got you so upset. I'm not hiding any "true colors" and I'd have to f*ck up pretty bad for her to wind up as bitter as you.
Actually, one allows himself to become bitter. Have I had things in my life that did not work out? Damn right. A failed marriage, etc. You make a conscious decision to allow those things to dictate your view of the rest of the world.
That's just it. It's not directed personally at me, but I am being lumped into the group. Am I bitter...absolutely against my ex and the system, but not against women in general. My Tara is wonderful and a complete 180 from my ex. I have never been as happy as I am now, but my ex is constantly trying to make life a hassle for me and my family because the system allows her to.
But it allows her. Additionally, the Attorney General office now has an automated system to keep track of us guys that are always on time with payments, making sure we get called for reviews on schedule, whether we are making more money or not. God forbid she would have to keep track or actually request a review. Everything was going fine, and then she finds out that she can get more, and the AG office will take care of it...SURE...let's do it.
okay buddy, i'm sorry about your situation. you are bitter, rightfully so, just try not to take it out on others. your ex could just be cool, regardless of the law, but she isn't, that's your problem. did you screw her over real bad or is she just satan?
Falcons, if you dont mind me asking, what happened that resulted in a divorce? just constant arguing, which lead to unhappiness, did she want the divorce or did you? how long were you married before the divorce? just curious
I don't think you do. Maybe I am venting a little, but there is a serious problem in the family law code in regards to the noncustodial parent. Yes, I've spoken to lawyers, state reps, organizations...and nothing is getting done.
