offer her the $245 straight up instead of paying for the concert, then you'll know what kind of girl she really is
dude, go with your impulse. If she dont seem worth the hassle, dont hassle with her. Plenty of other chicas out there...if an ugly mo-fo like me can find a good woman, surely you can too. I didn't do everything a prospective date wants, you do what you want to do and if she has fun, you know you found a good one.
Dinner and drinks is the way to go...not dinner and movie. Dinner and movie is for when youve been together for a while.
The question is "does she drink?". :grin: If she doesnt, then Im sure she would be fine with dinner and a movie, haha.
nope, been next to broke most of my life. I always worked jobs I liked, not for the money. Prime example: live audio engineering and interning at recording studios pay next to nothing...and I did both of those for many years even tho I was fully qualified to work for auto dealerships. The difference between me and alot of you younger guys...I know how to treat a woman the way she wants to be treated and am man enough to not care if I do things that might endanger my "man card"
I can understand dinner being a bit lame. There are a lot of anxieties she has to deal with, and would prefer not to (is there food in her teeth, is she eating too fast, is she not talking too much while she's eating, etc) Just do something fun and offer to take her to eat dessert. Ice cream, yogurt, cheesecake factory seem to work pretty well.
I was joking man, sorry if it came across as anything else I admire the heck out of you for doing that man, I tried to go about things the same way and then reality hit: school loans, bills to pay, all kinds of shiznit that needed to get paid. Recently I realized that I would rather do something with a livable wage and then have my fun on the side with that extra cash I bring. Being a dreamer is nice but it ain't going to pay my bills. Sorry for the tangent
Drop her off at the home of the thadeus. You can pick her back up in a few hours. She'll think you're great.
That's a good question. Sounds like djohn hasn't "talked" enough with her to know why she doesn't like dinner & a movie and what she does like.
Take her on a romantic free walk in the park then. If she really likes you, she won't care where you take her (within reason).
