I don't think I've mentioned this before, but a guy tried to rape me my freshman year of college. He literally forced his way on to me while I showered and it took me beating the crap out of him to get him out of the stall. I used to lock my bedroom door as he'd pound on it, telling me how he was going to rape me...I slept on my fraternity house couch for two months to avoid seeing him. When I tell this story to people, they usually tell me I'm at fault. So-called progressives who preach that "consent is sexy" tell me I'm at fault or that I shouldn't have called him a *** when I fought him off. Straight women loooove gay men and have even accused me of homophobia because I didn't accept being raped. My rapist btw is happily married in Oklahoma btw. I lock my doors and still wake up screaming afraid he's going to show up. I have trouble being intimate with my partners because it reminds me of him. Yet, he gets a pass as a gay man. **** him and **** all of the hypocrites who want to burn down frat houses for allegations but turn a blind eye when one of their own tries stuff.
Damn.. Sorry to hear that happened to you. That said I don't think gay men get much of a pass. They can be seen as much as predators as straight men. That Kevin Spacey was harrassing the same gender certainly hasn't given him a pass.
Yeah but Spacey got away with it for decades. I reported my offender to both the university and DC police...nothing happened and no one cared. I went to a students against sexual assault meeting and it was a group of chicks just bashing frat boys. They absolutely get a pass...and the fact I still get told I'm at fault for being a victim is proof of it.
Yes Spacey got away with it for decades but that didn't have anything to do with that he was gay. It had to do with that powerful men like him, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby and etc.. could get away stuff. Again I don't doubt your story but I don't think your story applies to every other case.
not sure what type of people you’re telling this story to to where the 3rd paragraph happens on some routine basis
I'm sorry this happened to you, but something doesn't quite track. He tried to rape you when you were in a very physically vulnerable position (naked in the shower so somewhat enclosed space, he had the advantage of surprise, etc) but you still managed to beat his ass and get the upper hand... ...and he still tried to intimidate you on occasions afterwards, knowing full well you could beat his ass if he ever tried again? Not that I want to make you try and remember some of the worst moments of your life, but if the authorities didn't do anything about it, why couldn't you just rough him up whenever the chance arose, again?
Because I didnt want to take chances that I wouldn't be able to rough him up again. Dude also roofied me at a party once. Also, I shouldnt have to rely on roughing a person up. If a guy can get expelled or suspended because of mere accusations from a girl...the university should at least look into an incident that happened. I suppose thats minority privilege though. It just astounds me how many 'sexual assault activists' blatantly ignored me or told me to my face I was complicit in every sexual assault ever for being in Greek Life.
mostly friends from college or other LGBT people. Everyone believes in a narrative and once you break that...people get upset and will do anything to keep that narrative alive
nah Gay men are pretty much the top, followed by bisexual women, lesbians, trans women are somewhere near the bottom. My town had the first ever Pride parade recently... straight woman got to have a big party and I was told I wasn't welcome because I argued...god forbid...people get assaulted or shot at during it, Id defend myself. The lgbtqia++ alphabet soup people are ****ing p*****s. They want me to apologize for being raised male and want me to renounce concepts I was raised with such as: - healthy competition - self defense - the free market There is ABSOLUTELY an LGBT agenda thats very radical at least among grad students. One woman told me the Holodmyr was "Nazi propaganda".
So u have friends that say it’s your fault for almost getting raped and get on u for not accepting multiple rape attempts claiming that makes u homophobic?
