Why are HOT girls completely psychotic? Advice needed.....

"b****es ain't sh*t but hoes and tricks. Lick on their nuts, and suck their diks." - Snoop Dogg.

 

JBII Rockets Question is a good one and one that you should say yes to. Also, no matter what you think, they are her issues, not yours. That is the best advice I can give as a man who's had similar circumstances. Don't bother with hers, it'll drive you nuts.

 

Drewdog...

You're moving to Houston at the end of the week. Think of it like this. Take the entire population of Austin (1 million last I heard)...multiply it by 2...that's how many women live in Houston.

New city...new job...dump the girl. If she is "weeding you out," it'll make her CRAZY that you dumped her rather than vice versa.

 

i just broke up with my girlfriend after 3 years.we just grew to different directions.We both tought it was better if it ended.there where character traits we didn't mind in the first 2 years,but after that they started to become problems, and i think if you get married it will be even worse,atleast if she isn't the wright one
it was very dificult for me but i know it is the best for us.and my breans just have to convince my heart.And they are getting there

i think honesty is the most importent thing in a relationship. If you know she isn't being honest now you should get away.if she isn't honest now she never will be.atleast in my opinion.Good luck drewdog.

 

I think that "Shallow Hal" answered your question. Hot chicks *know* that they are hot, and are going to be high maintenance. In addition, because they are beautiful, they never had to develop a personality worth being around. The movie went on to say that what you need to find is a chick who was ugly when she was young and turned beautiful, but still thinks that she is ugly -- that way you achieve the movie's ideal - a hot chick who is low maintenance.

Don't take any of the above too seriously, although there is probably some truth in it. The right woman for you will be fun to be with, and will make you feel good about yourself.

In my case, my wife thinks that I am better looking than her, and I know that she is cuter than I am. I'd appreciate it if no one clued her in, ok?

 

I concur. I wish I could've. Damn family Christmas.

 

Drewdog,
My theory on most women is that they adhere to a law of averages. Grading on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being the highest in the categories of facial beauty, hardbodiness, intelligence, common sense, personality, past personal issues, parents, and maintenance, they average a total score of 40. If your girl gets all her points from beuaty and body, you only have 20 points to divide between 6 traits averaging out to about a 3 in the remaining categories. The rare special ones that you want to build a relationship with average upwards of 60 points. Run as fast as you can from less than 20 unless you are in for a meaningless relationship and scores the 20 from facial beauty and hardbodiness.

 

I feel for ya, drewdog. I broke up with my fiancee this year after a long engagement. The breakup was drawn-out, too. She recently wanted to get back together then almost immediately pulled that rug out from underneath me.

Thing is, after awhile you get tired of the behavioral problems. In my case, she kept changing her mind about where she wanted to be, and there was also the career thing for her. (This was also a long-distance relationship after we had lived together a couple of years.) The thing is, for me, she kept changing her mind about things....MAJOR things...often within days or even hours. AUGH.

Put it this way: because of decisions she made, I moved, not once but twice; stuck it out for years; the stress so bad that one of my submandibular salivary glands was swollen but I had to get it checked out because a lump that doesn't go away, let's face it, screams CANCER (thank God it wasn't).

So my advice? Although I'm still feeling my way after the relationship, it's better than remaining in something that just gnaws at you. If it isn't meant to be: GET THE F*** OUT.

And I say that with "love."

 

There is no reason you can't turn this relationship around. Arguing is not a sign that you can't make it work. You just have to change your approach.

I think most arguments come to a split in the road. You can either take the argument road or you can take the compromise road. If you simply say, "I think you are right" you will find that the other person calms right down and then you can begin the negotiations. You're not really giving up, you're just taking the argument and turning it into a thoughtful discussion. Once you've done that you can make some rational decisions.

If you take the argument road you end up polarizing each other. It sounds stupid, and trust me I know it sounds really really stupid, but the best negotiations start at the middle. They don't try to work their way toward the middle.

Even if you think she is dead wrong, and you don't want to negotiate, you have to walk in her shoes for a second, because she is just as smart as you, and she thinks she is dead right too.

It doesn't always work out. Relationships go sour. But if you attack it calmly you at least have a rational perspective to make some choices.

 

Well, duh....it's the 6 month good behavior release!!!!

After 6 months, good behavior is over, and she gets to be her real self now.

I am being sarcastic, but in my experience, there is some truth to the "good behavior" rule. Sometimes in the beginning, we do things to impress, be a little more accomodating and tolerating of things, until we get comfortable.....then....LOOK OUT!

Anyway, who needs a liar. If she can lie about things like who she's been with (which is always a taboo subject in my opinion), then she can lie about other things too.

 

Let me guess, you were still getting taller while she was getting fatter?

 

I've met both of you, and I by far have to say your wife is MUCH better looking!

B

 

Dating advice from the little big man.

 

As Majid used to say:

You can't turn a ho into a housewife...

 

surely the Venn diagram between Hot and Psychotic girls does not completely overlap, maybe try someone who is not in both

 

Venn diagram? I thought the overlap between hot and psycho girls was more like concentric circles....

 

where

A = Hot Girls
B = Psychotic Girls
C = Drewdogs selections

 

It's classic darwinian selection. Ugly girls that are psychotic don't find mates and therefore don't reproduce. Hot girls, however, can be psychotic and still find a mate. Therefore, the "hot chick" gene is more likely to come coupled with the "emotional lability" gene.

The same could also be said from a Skinnerian viewpoint. For hot chicks, the adversive conditioning which makes ugly chicks be sane or else not get the "reward" of a boyfriend is not present, because guys will put up with anything from a hot chick.

 

I think some of you have been spending too much time at study hall and too little time at the bar

I see a graduate research project coming up. My guess is the research may take a while. Any volunteers? How does one get this funded?

 

Yes, Smeg, I understand Venn diagrams. My joke diagram was this: