Really? I've had some great hate sex with ex right before we've broken up, its right up there with with make up sex.
I don't really consider a meaningful relationship a waste of time, even if we did not end up together. Personally, I think the hardest thing (for me at least) has been to starting over because, to truly start over, you have to get rid of all the emotional baggage that came with the last relationship and feel ready to go into some serious again (going on random dates/one night stands do not count).
I like dating women and/or having a gf. Can't really say I've ever actually regretted an entire relationship, though I've certainly had ones that could have been better. What I hate the most is having trouble remembering all the reasons you wanted to end it in the first place and can only remember the nice, sweet moments. I have to actively remind myself of all the shi**y times to get through it.
I chose the option about losing dreams and expectations, with that person, but this only applies to long-term relationship, (I think), so the worst break-ups is when you had a very serious relationship, and break up.
I've been married for 32 years, so it's been a while, but different reasons for different relationships. With one chick, I regretted that I had stayed with her as long as I did before finally asking her to move out. With another, we split up during a trip to Europe, mutually, because we both could see that we'd have more fun alone. I had mixed feelings, initially, but soon figured out it was a great decision. She kept tracking me down and "borrowing" money. The worst breakup I guess I ever had might not qualify. I returned to the States while still having very strong feelings for a Dutch girl I was with for a long time. I had finally reached the end of my funds, despite making them last months longer than I thought possible. I intended to return and never did, not to her. When I left her at the train station of her town outside of Amsterdam, it was like a scene out of a movie. Decades later, I still sometimes think of her. She was truly beautiful, inside and out.
When you are feeling down and depressed, especially because of a girl, just listen to this album: Or just listen to it if you are not depressed because it is that damn good.
its when you run into thier so called best friend after you have found out she was having more sex with her then you were.
To be honest, I've never had a really bad break-up. With shouting and fighting, etc. But I do get the "wasted time, emotion, etc" thing for nearly all my breakups.
How about when the first girl you set up a date with after a breakup from a long-term relationship stands you up and realize being single can suck, then you end up posting on ClutchFans on a Saturday night because of being stood up.
what kind of pu$$iefied male population do we have here on clutchfans? Leave post breakup depression for the ladies, and let us enjoy the freedom of doing whatever/whoever we want and not having rules/commitments.
