That happened to me once. At the bar some chick I knew from work grabbed my hand, put it up against her ass, led me onto the dance floor and started grinding me a bit. We had always had a flirty relationship in the past, and I figured this would be the night things went to the next level. Unfortunately, at that moment a fast song came on and I started busting out my dance moves. I could see an expression of instant disappointment and amusement cross her face as I cut loose. At that precise moment, in her eyes I moved from a potential stud to a silly boy who had no chance. She went back to her girlfriends immediately after and I ended up going home alone. From that moment forward, I decided never to fast dance again. True story, bro.
I have a trick I've been using for quite some time. If you're grinding with a girl and you just want to find out if you're going to make out and talk instead of just dancing as her "buddy" do these things to find out. 1) when you dance with her. Hold her like you mean it. Don't be scared to wrap your arm around her waist. She might like it and start to look at you different. If she doesn't like it then say "I'm sorry". if she likes it move to step 2. 2) kind of breath on her neck area. Seduce her. If she's half way buzzing then you might get away with a kiss. a small one, on her neck. 3) when you're tired of dancing be a ****ing man and just tell her straight out, "Hey, let's go outside and get some fresh air. You get to talk a little more but you are making your intentions clear. You don't want to be her dance partner. You want to ****. I'm not a player but if a girl pulls you to the dance floor and puts her ass on your crotch it says a lot.
Whats wrong with girls? surprisingly enough that I wouldn't even be able to come close to fitting it into this post. The cliff-notes version - "They are somehow over emotional yet heartless b/tches" yes I said it, don't lie you all were thinking it too.
I must be old because dancing has absolutely no part in picking up women to me. I tend to just let my talking do the talking.
Or like some of us, for some strange reason, you could have terrible coordination and can't dance.....
This...is very, very true. I go to the club with my girlfriends not to pick up a man but to reassure myself that I still can. :grin:
If you want to get laid, go somewhere where you can actually talk to a woman, not a loud ass club full of horny dudes that put all of the women on the defensive.
Hmmm...interesting. But he said everything. Wouldn't that automatically include like...well, everything?
Is this girl in the pic Ukrainian ? East European women have the most beautiful eyes along with their average height is taller than most women.
