I had a camcorder. She knows better...and we have only argued once in front of my son. Besides, she cares FAR to much about her public image to let them know how she REALLY is. Now don't get me wrong. I'm not going to go and sit next to her if there are other seats, and I do give her distance out of common courtesy, but if she can't handle me being there at the game or anywhere else for that matter, then she has some serious issues.
Women...We'll never understand them and never will... If I didn't enjoy women so much, I'd be gay...I hate the fact they use sex as a tool to get what they want and also use our offspring to as pawns to play games... The only thing I know is that all women are evil...
Patience young Padawan...you will find somebody that will accept you as with your emotional baggage. If the relationship that was ruined was fragile enough to her to be ruined by the PBE, then I think PBE may have unintentionally done you a favor. You should thank PBE. It'll piss them both off.
I gotcha, FT. You certainly know more about the situation than I, or anyone else here does. Good luck today.
Again, I have to disagree. That's kind of like saying all guys are jerks. Tara is wonderful and we are very good together. In fact she just got a 1 carat diamond ring from me for Valentine's Day. She has been great to me and my son, and is everything I could have ever wanted in a woman. Granted, we had a few rough times, those things are WAY behind us. There are a few wonderful women out there. I'm fortunate to have found one of them.
There's a lot more to it than just emotional baggage. My ex also told everyone that I gave her an STD(HPV, which is really no big deal. 75% of sexually active people have a strain of it). But guys can't be tested for HPV and I think this is the reason that the new girl doesn't want to get with me. This is so frustrating. It's gonna take a long time to find someone. They gotta be cool with the emotional baggage(I'm gonna have trust issues from being cheated on), a possible STD(some girls will run away because of something that I can't control.. I feel like a god damned leper) and they gotta be Jewish on top of that(which takes out 99% of women). As you said though.. if she runs because of what PBE said, then it's doing me a big big favor. I'm thinking of taking legal action against PBE to get her to stop spreading slanderous lies. I'm gonna get a sworn affadavit from the people she told. After that, I'm going to send a cease and desist letter to her house. If she continues to slander me after that, I will sue her sorry azz. I have medical records showing that she's caused me a lot of emotional damage. It's nice having a bro-in-law thats a lawyer.
Hey, I've watched both of my sisters go through the same thing, but with the guys acting like asses about everything. Luckily they're all on the same page now and can get along great. Hopefully one day you and your ex can do the same. Don't say it'll never happen. My family said that with both of my ex brothers in-law and we were wrong.
...and thanks rrj_gamz, Franchise2001, bamaslammer, Sir Jackie Chiles, MacBeth, JBIIRockets, mrpaige, and HAYJON02.
Yep...document these things legally so that you can establish her character in case it has to go in front of a judge. I wish you luck. The right girl is out there for you. BTW, you could say that you F'ed PBE's best friend/mom/sister and she didn't get anything from you.
Everything usually goes pretty smoothly until she has her "ideas". Perfect example was summer vacation. She asked me not to take my son to "Sea World" because she wanted to take him first. PBE's...can't live with them....the end.
Thanks for advice man. I'm only 22 and I know there's a lot in store for me. It just sucks to think that you finally find someone and your past comes back to haunt you before they even give you a chance. That being said, she did say that she needs time to think about it. If someone told me they might have an STD, I'd need time too. I know 100% now that my ex is freaking nuts (I was 99% sure before). I'm a lot stronger from the things she put me through during the break up. If the new girl doesn't want to be with me, it won't take much time to move on.
I sent you an email at the Yahoo address I have for you. Is that still your address? If you want to discuss this further, drop me a line at Lynus302@yahoo.com.
FT -- it meant the world to me to have my father at virtually every event i ever participated in...make sure you go as often as possible...i don't doubt you will...i'm soooo sorry that she's making it so difficult.
http://www.boysa.org/UnderFour.htm He plays for Livingway. Since she didn't give me jack, I tracked it down on my own. and I will be at every game. I tried to get him into karate, but SHE didn't like that idea. She psycho! She pleasant one instant and cold/gruff the next and only SHE can come up with ideas. I don't understand how i stayed married to this creature for so long...I know God had a plan, because I now have a beautiful child whom I live dearly!
Weird. I thought they were using us for sex, though I suppose it can go either way. I've begun to think that they only put on the whole "relationship" facade so they can get some. Or at least that it's the main point of the relationship. Which doesn't excuse the women who don't really mean it and use sex as a bargaining tool... withholding it until they get something they want, or giving it away after they get something they want. That just makes you a cheap wh*re. Let's see... who is our relationship expert supposed to be? (not counting Baqui99 )
