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What do you say to people who ask too many questions?

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  1. Dankstronaut

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    Tactfully of course. Like, what’s the nice way of saying you ask too many questions that are either obvious, ill-timed or flatly unanswerable? Or just numerous...Someone you care for asks what is a simple enough, yet amazingly intrusive question...particularly when it’s like the 49th text messaged question of the week...the appropriate response isn’t to explode at them or say something like “geez, anxiety much?”

    But also like, kinda tired of fielding so many questions. Help?
     
  2. KingCheetah

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    How many is too many?
     
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    If u keep giving one word answers, they should get the idea.
     
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  5. KingCheetah

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    What do you consider tactful?
     
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  6. Mr. Brightside

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    Just take longer and longer to respond if via text. Who has time to write a super long text explaining things during the work week. I just write back one word answers or for the person to call me if needing further explanation.
     
  7. KingCheetah

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    What do you mean by simple/ complex?
     
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  8. Deckard

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    I would text, "I don't answer a question by text. If you want an answer, see me in person." Then if they actually know you and go to the trouble of showing up, you open the door with, "You had a question?" Whatever they ask you, say you haven't a clue. Next, tell them you have an appointment and you have to leave. Then leave.
     
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    "Hey I feel like you are asking me way too many questions. I appreciate you but please cut it way back."

    Honesty always works. Sometimes it draws emotional responses but over time, direct and truthful people are always appreciated .
     
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    "sorry i gotta go take a schitte" and never come back.
     
  12. DreamShook

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    I get the sense that you don't want this person to stop asking you questions you just want them to stop asking so many questions. Could it be you are afraid that if you are honest with this person this person will stop asking questions entirely?

    I'm with @theimpossibles1, be honest. There are a lot of people out here that ask too many questions. I know it's annoying, but just answer the question, get it over with, and keep it moving.

    IMO, there is more energy spent asking a person why they are asking so many questions or abstaining from a question all together than answering the question.

    If it is a question you don't want answer, say you don't want to answer the question.
     
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  13. Deckard

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    What's your point?

    ;-)
     
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  14. ThatBoyNick

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    There's not nearly enough context being given here. Context is everything. I literally have a ton of questions for you now, as well as everyone here, which is fantastically ironic considering the topic lmao.
     
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    When you have to literally scroll back days to see something that wasn’t a question, instead it was unsolicited advice lol

    You would think...

    Yeah. I mean, I don’t mind sometimes...but like, it moves to a point beyond inquisitorial and just kinda rude eventually, particularly imo with the inconsiderately timed questioning. I don’t want to hurt their feelings, I know they mean well but like, you’re being nosy and rude. You’re being inconsiderate and kinda like, obviously inconsiderate. Maybe it’s just the wording or the emotionless text conveying the wrong sentiment...

    But also like, please stop asking me so many questions. And yes, these folk’ll be sensitive AF about it, be petty and snarky for a year about it if I come incorrect.

    But also like, fuggin please stop asking me SO many questions. This isn’t a press conference.
     
  16. Xerobull

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    @Derp McFlopsky this is a very subjective question and we need to know more about you to succinctly form an opinion. Please answer these questions:

    1. What shows are you into?

    2. What’s your claim to fame?

    3. How often do you play sports?

    4. Are you usually early or late?

    5. What quirks do you have?

    6. How often do you people watch?

    7. What’s your favorite drink?

    8. What do you hope never changes?

    9. What’s your dream car?

    10. Where would you rather be from?

    11. What songs have you completely memorized?

    12. What would you rate 10 / 10?

    13. What job would you be terrible at?

    14. What are you absolutely determined to do?

    15. What skill would you like to master?

    16. What website do you visit most often?

    17. What would your perfect room look like?

    18. What movie title best describes your life?

    19. What age do you want to live to?

    20. What kind of art do you enjoy most?

    21. What takes up too much of your time?

    22. What do you wish you knew more about?

    23. What’s the best way to start the day?

    24. What do you wish you knew more about?

    25. How different was your life one year ago?

    26. What’s the best single day on the calendar?

    27. What are some things you’ve had to unlearn?

    28. What’s your favorite genre of book or movie?

    29. What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from home?

    30. What TV channel doesn’t exist but really should?

    31. Where is the most interesting place you’ve been?

    32. What fad or trend do you hope comes back?

    33. What city would you most like to live in?

    34. When was the last time you climbed a tree?

    35. What do you consider to be your best find?

    36. What is special about the place you grew up?

    37. What age do you wish you could permanently be?

    38. What’s worth spending more on to get the best?

    39. What are you most likely to become famous for?

    40. What fictional place would you most like to go?

    41. Where is the most relaxing place you’ve ever been?

    42. What have you only recently formed an opinion about?

    43. What is the most heartwarming thing you’ve ever seen?

    44. What’s the most interesting piece of art you’ve seen?

    45. What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?

    46. Would you rather go hang gliding or whitewater rafting?

    47. Who has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?

    48. How do you relax after a hard day of work?

    49. What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?

    50. What job do you think you’d be really good at?

    51. What pets did you have while you were growing up?

    52. Where would you spend all your time if you could?

    53. What would be the most amazing adventure to go on?

    54. What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?

    55. What’s the best way a person can spend their time?

    56. What one thing do you really want but can’t afford?

    57. What is the luckiest thing that has happened to you?

    58. What are some small things that make your day better?

    59. What’s the best thing that happened to you last week?

    60. What are you looking forward to in the coming months?

    61. What’s your favorite piece of clothing you own / owned?

    62. What is the most annoying habit that other people have?

    63. What is the most annoying question that people ask you?

    64. What is the most impressive thing you know how to do?

    65. What was the best book or series that you’ve ever read?

    66. What question would you most like to know the answer to?

    67. What are you interested in that most people haven’t heard of?

    68. Why did you decide to do the work you are doing now?

    69. What state or country do you never want to go back to?

    70. Where do you usually go when you when you have time off?

    71. What are you most looking forward to in the next 10 years?

    72. What game or movie universe would you most like to live in?

    73. If you suddenly became a master at woodworking, what would you make?

    74. What could you give a 40-minute presentation on with absolutely no preparation?

    75. What amazing thing did you do that no one was around to see?

    76. What hobby would you get into if time and money weren’t an issue?

    77. If you didn’t have to sleep, what would you do with the extra time?

    78. When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?

    79. What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives?

    80. What’s something you’ve been meaning to try but just haven’t gotten around to it?

    81. If all jobs had the same pay and hours, what job would you like to have?

    82. Who’s your go to band or artist when you can’t decide on something to listen to?

    83. If you were dictator of a small island nation, what crazy dictator stuff would you do?

    84. What is something that is considered a luxury, but you don’t think you could live without?

    85. What would be your first question after waking up from being cryogenically frozen for 100 years?

    86. What is something that a ton of people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?

    87. If you could turn any activity into an Olympic sport, what would you have a good chance at winning medal for?

    88. What piece of entertainment do you wish you could erase from your mind so that you could experience for the first time again?

    89. If you had unlimited funds to build a house that you would live in for the rest of your life, what would the finished house be like?

    90. What gets you fired up?

    91. What makes a good life?

    92. What risks are worth taking?

    93. What do you take for granted?

    94. Who inspires you to be better?

    95. What do you have doubts about?

    96. When do you feel truly “alive”?

    97. What fact are your resigned to?

    98. What book impacted you the most?

    99. What’s the best thing about you?

    100. What are you addicted to?
     
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    Xerobull You son of a b!tch! I'm in!

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    105. What’s something you are self-conscious about?

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    108. What’s the last adventure you went on?

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    118. Who is / was your most interesting friend?

    119. What are you most likely very wrong about?

    120. What’s the most immature thing that you do?

    121. What stereotype do you completely live up to?

    122. What is the biggest lesson you never learned?

    123. What dumb accomplishment are you most proud of?

    124. What was the most memorable gift you’ve received?

    125. What chapters would you separate your autobiography into?

    126. What do you hope your last words will be?

    127. What do you spend the most time thinking about?

    128. What is something you can never seem to finish?

    129. What mistake do you keep making again and again?

    130. What’s the best thing you got from your parents?

    131. What is the strangest thing you have come across?

    132. What would a mirror opposite of yourself be like?

    133. What’s the best and worst thing about getting older?

    134. What would be the scariest monster you could imagine?

    135. What is something you are certain you’ll never experience?

    136. What challenging thing are you working through these days?

    137. What’s one responsibility you really wish you didn’t have?

    138. What do you wish your brain was better at doing?

    139. If your childhood had a smell, what would it be?

    140. In your group of friends, what role do you play?

    141. Which of your scars has the best story behind it?

    142. What have you created that you are most proud of?

    143. What do you strongly suspect but have no proof of?

    144. What were some of the turning points in your life?

    145. What bends your mind every time you think about it?

    146. What’s the title of the current chapter of your life?

    147. Among your friends or family, what are you famous for?

    148. What is something that your friends would consider “so you”?

    149. What’s something horrible that everyone should try at least once?

    150. If you had a personal flag, what would be on it?

    151. If your life was a book, what would its title be?

    152. As the only human left on Earth, what would you do?

    153. What stat for your life would you most like to see?

    154. What did you think you would grow out of but haven’t?

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    156. What are some of your personal “rules” that you never break?

    157. What’s the best and worst piece of advice you’ve ever received?

    158. What song or artist do you like but rarely admit to liking?

    159. What annoys you most about the in-groups you are a part of?

    160. What small gesture from a stranger made a big impact on you?

    161. What do you regret not doing or starting when you were younger?

    162. What’s the dumbest thing you’ve done that actually turned out pretty well?

    163. If you had to change your name, what would you change it to?

    164. When people look at you, what do you think they see / think?

    165. What can you not get right, no matter how many times you try?

    166. What question can you ask to find out the most about a person?

    167. As you get older, what are you becoming more and more afraid of?

    168. What lifestyle change have you been meaning to make for a while now?

    169. In what situation or place would you feel the most out of place in?

    170. There are two types of people in this world. What are the two types?

    171. What personality trait do you value most and which do you dislike the most?

    172. When was the last time you changed your opinion / belief about something major?

    173. What would you do if you knew you were going to die in one hour?

    174. What are some of the events in your life that made you who you are?

    175. If life is a game, like some people say, what are some of the rules?

    176. They say that everyone has a book in them. What would your book be about?

    177. What could you do with two million dollars to impact the most amount of people?

    178. What would be some of the most annoying things about having yourself as a roommate?

    179. What are you really good at, but kind of embarrassed that you are good at it?

    180. If you could make one rule that everyone had to follow, what rule would you make?

    181. What’s something that happened or something that someone said that changed how you view the world?

    182. If you were put into solitary confinement for six months, what would you do to stay sane?

    183. If you could have a video of any one event in your life, what event would you choose?

    184. What incredibly strong opinion or belief do you have that is completely unimportant in the grand scheme of things?

    185. What are the top three things you want to accomplish before you die? How close are you to accomplishing them?

    186. If you could have a never-ending candle that smelled like anything you wanted, what fragrance would you want it to be?

    187. If you could convince everyone in the world to do one thing at one point in time, what would that thing be?

    188. If you had a clock that would countdown to any one event of your choosing, what event would you want it to countdown to?

    189. What do you wish you could tell yourself 10 years ago? What do you think you’ll want to tell your current self 10 years from now?

    190. If you were forced to relive one 10-minute block of your life again and again for all eternity, what 10 minutes of your life would you choose?

    191. If you could make a 20 second phone call to yourself at any point in your life present or future, when would you call and what would you say?

    192. What keeps you up at night?

    193. What lie do you tell most often?

    194. What do you regret not doing?

    195. What gives your life meaning?

    196. What are you most insecure about?

    197. What bridges do you not regret burning?

    198. What’s the most illegal thing you’ve done?

    199. How do you get in the way of your own success?

    200. What are you afraid people see when they look at you?

    201. What’s the most surprising self-realization you’ve had?

    202. How do you hope you’ll change as a person in the future?

    203. What’s one thing you did that you really wish you could go back and undo?

    204. What do you most often look down on people for? What do you think other people look down on you for?
     
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    The key to a great press conference I found is to never answer their question, just answer with whatever you want to say. Then you hold the power. And I assure you, everyone else is likely going to be a lot more interested and entertained. "That's a great question. You know what I was thinking about last night, orange beluga whales."
     
  19. Os Trigonum

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    that's too many questions
     
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    1. What shows are you into?
    Frasier, fantasy, comedy, cooking
    2. What’s your claim to fame?
    Musician
    3. How often do you play sports?
    Probably 20 B-ball games a year
    4. Are you usually early or late?
    Early
    5. What quirks do you have?
    What did you call me?
    6. How often do you people watch?
    Never
    7. What’s your favorite drink?
    Tea
    8. What do you hope never changes?
    My marriage
    9. What’s your dream car?
    Tesla
    10. Where would you rather be from?
    Japan
    11. What songs have you completely memorized?
    Primal Concrete Sledge by Pantera
    12. What would you rate 10 / 10?
    Roller coasters that do flips
    13. What job would you be terrible at?
    Social worker
    14. What are you absolutely determined to do?
    Improve my skills
    15. What skill would you like to master?
    Improvement
    16. What website do you visit most often?
    Clutchfans
    17. What would your perfect room look like?
    Something like guitar center
    18. What movie title best describes your life?
    Wayne’s world
    19. What age do you want to live to?
    100
    20. What kind of art do you enjoy most?
    Pointillism
    21. What takes up too much of your time?
    Kids shows
    22. What do you wish you knew more about?
    Flavor profiles
    23. What’s the best way to start the day?
    Yoga
    24. What do you wish you knew more about?
    Recording, editing audio
    25. How different was your life one year ago?
    Pretty different
    26. What’s the best single day on the calendar?
    Christmas!
    27. What are some things you’ve had to unlearn?
    Being an *******
    28. What’s your favorite genre of book or movie?
    Fantasy
    29. What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from home?
    Probably New Hampshire
    30. What TV channel doesn’t exist but really should?
    MUsic television
    31. Where is the most interesting place you’ve been?
    California
    32. What fad or trend do you hope comes back?
    Fidget spinners
    33. What city would you most like to live in?
    I prefer country
    34. When was the last time you climbed a tree?
    Few years ago
    35. What do you consider to be your best find?
    My esp guitar
    36. What is special about the place you grew up?
    For me, it was that there were all types. Didn’t realize until I was much older that’s not how it Is everywhere
    37. What age do you wish you could permanently be?
    21
    38. What’s worth spending more on to get the best?
    Basically everything
    39. What are you most likely to become famous for?
    Music
    40. What fictional place would you most like to go?
    Garden of eden
    41. Where is the most relaxing place you’ve ever been?
    The Bahamas
    42. What have you only recently formed an opinion about?
    Self care, putting oneself in positions to succeed
    43. What is the most heartwarming thing you’ve ever seen?
    My son’s birth
    44. What’s the most interesting piece of art you’ve seen?
    Body worlds
    45. What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?
    Make old fashioned s
    46. Would you rather go hang gliding or whitewater rafting?
    Hang gliding
    47. Who has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?
    My wife
    48. How do you relax after a hard day of work?
    Beeeeeeeeer
    49. What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?
    Across the universe
    50. What job do you think you’d be really good at?
    Audio producer
    51. What pets did you have while you were growing up?
    Cats blehhhh
    52. Where would you spend all your time if you could?
    Audio recording studios
    53. What would be the most amazing adventure to go on?
    Idk, 3 month long cruise or something
    54. What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?
    Smokin weed, cooking delicious food and having lots of sex
    55. What’s the best way a person can spend their time?
    Expanding on interests
    56. What one thing do you really want but can’t afford?
    Harp guitar
    57. What is the luckiest thing that has happened to you?
    I’m still alive so probably something about surviving my youth
    58. What are some small things that make your day better?
    When someone’s listens to my music
    59. What’s the best thing that happened to you last week?
    I got a new job
    60. What are you looking forward to in the coming months?
    Queen concert
    61. What’s your favorite piece of clothing you own / owned?
    Green, plain lucky brand t shirt
    62. What is the most annoying habit that other people have?
    Asking too many questions
    63. What is the most annoying question that people ask you?
    This one
    64. What is the most impressive thing you know how to do?
    Audio editing
    65. What was the best book or series that you’ve ever read?
    House of leaves by Mark z. Danielewski
    66. What question would you most like to know the answer to?
    How to take down the shadow government
    67. What are you interested in that most people haven’t heard of?
    Chess
    68. Why did you decide to do the work you are doing now?
    It’s fun
    69. What state or country do you never want to go back to?
    West Virginia
    70. Where do you usually go when you when you have time off?
    Home
    71. What are you most looking forward to in the next 10 years?
    Having a bank account that doesn’t suck
    72. What game or movie universe would you most like to live in?
    MCU
    73. If you suddenly became a master at woodworking, what would you make?
    Everything. Crazy tables that fold out into crazier tables
    74. What could you give a 40-minute presentation on with absolutely no preparation?
    Playing guitar
    75. What amazing thing did you do that no one was around to see?
    I used to be able to touch the rim on a basketball goal. Pretty good leap for a squatty 5’10” white dude
    76. What hobby would you get into if time and money weren’t an issue?
    All of them lol
    77. If you didn’t have to sleep, what would you do with the extra time?
    Record more music
    78. When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?
    Moving heavy ****
    79. What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives?
    Grow a beard
    80. What’s something you’ve been meaning to try but just haven’t gotten around to it?
    Thai food
    81. If all jobs had the same pay and hours, what job would you like to have?
    Audio producer
    82. Who’s your go to band or artist when you can’t decide on something to listen to?
    Cohere and Cambria
    83. If you were dictator of a small island nation, what crazy dictator stuff would you do?
    Legalize weed, throw big weed parties every weekend
    84. What is something that is considered a luxury, but you don’t think you could live without?
    Weed lol jkjk...
    85. What would be your first question after waking up from being cryogenically frozen for 100 years?
    Bathroom?
    86. What is something that a ton of people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    The office
    87. If you could turn any activity into an Olympic sport, what would you have a good chance at winning medal for?
    Manually machining sheet metal blehhhh
    88. What piece of entertainment do you wish you could erase from your mind so that you could experience for the first time again?
    Inception
    89. If you had unlimited funds to build a house that you would live in for the rest of your life, what would the finished house be like?
    House in the hill country with an underground layer
    90. What gets you fired up?
    Metal music
    91. What makes a good life?
    Happiness
    92. What risks are worth taking?
    Following your dreams
    93. What do you take for granted?
    Myself
    94. Who inspires you to be better?
    My son
    95. What do you have doubts about?
    Fuggin EVERYTHING
    96. When do you feel truly “alive”?
    Like, RIGHT after....
    97. What fact are your resigned to?
    I’ll probably never be a famed composer
    98. What book impacted you the most?
    House of leaves
    99. What’s the best thing about you?
    I’m generally pretty nice
    100. What are you addicted to?
    This questionnaire
     
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