I agree. I don't care to wear any jewelry. I don't like to wear finger rings, earrings, toe rings, nose rings, tongue rings, belly button bling, genital jewelry, necklaces, or bracelets. I guess I just don't care to be noticed because of the jewelry that I wear.
Who cares what people think as far as it being homosexual or not? I personally would never get either of my ears pierced, but for the guys that do, I think getting them both done is the way to go.