You break-up with them but before you break up make out some arrangement where you can still be f*ck buddies when you have no other options.
A 90-year-old man said to his doctor, "I've never felt better. I have an 18-year-old bride who is pregnant with my child. What do you think about that?" The doctor considered his question for a minute and then aid, "I have an elderly friend who is a hunter and never misses a season. One day when he was going out in a bit of a hurry, he accidentally picked up his umbrella instead of his gun. When he got to the Creek, he saw a beaver sitting beside the stream. He raised his umbrella and went, 'bang, bang' and the beaver fell dead. What do you think of that?" The 90-year-old said, "I'd say somebody else shot that beaver." The doctor replied, "My point exactly."
Thanks for the support & suggestions guys! That's great! Amazingly I had some sleep the last few hours... felt too tired & depressed to actually do something else... & yes I feel much better right now... In reality there is no time for me to get caught up with that right now... need to get rid of that feeling as fast as I could... A lot of deadlines to meet over the next few weeks at work... Maybe that helps... Although it's painful, but on the other hand it's a good thing that I can finally giveup on her... there are much more important things in my life right now and I'm telling myself that I'm not going to waste my time thinking about the past any more... It's another day & I'm determined to make it a good one! Cheers!
CRC, There is a solution for you, one that is absolute, unconditional, and sure-fire: Time. You're stuck at the lowest possible point. You're a little lonely and you miss her. Tomorrow, though, the sting won't hurt so much. Instead of thinking about her ten hours a day, it will only be eight. In a week, it might still hurt some, but you'll be joking about it with your buddies. In a month, this will barely even cross your mind. In two months you'll be yelling for Francis to pass the ball. You broke up with your ex for good reasons. Those underlying issues still exist. She's still the same woman she used to be, and you're still the same man you used to be. If you thought you should have broken up two years ago, listen to your gut. It's usually right. This only hurts now because you don't have her, and it makes you lonely. Remember, the grass is always greener. If you were still with her, your wandering eye would return and you'd be thinking about the cute blonde at work you wish you could date . . . You're a free and single man. That's hard to appreciate at the moment. But remind yourself: right now you could sleep with any woman in the world and not feel any guilt! None! (although I wouldn't recommend sleeping with your mother, the mother of any of your friends, girlfriends or wives of your friends, your sister, or any hotel employees in Colorado). One quick suggestion that will make you feel better: go rent the movie Swingers. I'm sure you've already seen it. Watch it again. It will perk you up. And if you haven't seen it----man, oh, man, you're in for a treat. Another rental that will cheer you up: an oldie but goodie, Better Off Dead. To steal a line from that classic: "Chin up, little trooper!" One last piece of advice: catch up with your oldest friends. Just pour your gut out to them. That's what they're there for. And you'll feel better after venting. But as I started with, the main thing is Time. Don't do anything rash. Don't fret about the pain you feel today. Instead have confidence that you did the right thing for tomorrow. Best of luck!
Thanks again guys! Yes YoYao, maybe I should take your approach & see if I can hook up any hot chick in the clubs... or posting my pic on "hot or not"... ai... nevermind! Anyway, I'll love to pay you a visit & check out the clubs in California someday...
Well I was gonna give advice, but how can I after having to follow Baqui99 and RocketBurrito? The pooper/slash tires and drinking heavily - that can't be beat lol, that's the best possible advice. Good luck
Burn everything with her face, name, or smell on it. Change your number. Have Sex with a stripper/Hooters chick Start workin' out If you ever find yourself having to speak to her talk about very vague things always mention that you are pressed for time and can't speak to her for long. If she ask why say "it's personal" and end the conversation. never dig up your past ; all you get is dirty. Learn from it and move on.
