Everyone is different, but for me, for my mate to be secure and happy, free from guilt and to truly love me for me... Great Sex is also a big part, IMO, for a successful relationship...For me, it makes me feel closer and secure...It also opens the lines of communication as a caring, sensual relationship is a great foundation for other things to go right... Btw, to be able to cook and clean would be great, but not essential...
I use to have desires, and when I was much younger I had specifics. But I've circled the sun almost 50 times now and I found that I'm not looking for anything in women. What I'm looking for is how I feel around them. RR
