Women who don't obsess about discussing relationships all the time. It is better to actually enjoy it, or deal with it, than having to talk about it.
I want a girl with extensions in her hair Bamboo earrings At least two pair A fendi bag and a bad attitude That’s all I need to get me in a good mood She can walk with a switch and talk with street slang I love it when a woman ain't scared to do her thing Standing at the bus stop sucking on a lollipop Once she gets pumping it’s hard to make the hottie stop
Don't lie to me, don't cheat on me, don't try and change me, always show me respect, trust me, believe in me, and if you can cook better then I can that would be a definite plust
There is probably a lot of truth to this. I don't know any other way to explain it. Most guys (at least who are not of the "belly full and balls empty" mindset) seem to be saying they just want to be loved and cared for and accepted and all that good stuff. Which is really the same as what most of us want. That means it should be easy. But somehow it just doesn't come together like that. That's why I'm trying to see what is really important to guys. Not to go around losing my self-confidence and trying to change myself to fit it; just to figure out whether I will ever even have a chance or not. If I need to give up now, so be it. (my female friends are nice and understanding, and don't mind talking about relationships... maybe that should be my preferred gender .... but it's not)
What Jeff said in his first post. There is no universal field theory for men and their desires, just like there isn't for women. That's the main reason there is the whole pursuit thing in dating...you have to find these things out for yourself on an individual basis for each individual guy. Einstein went to his grave looking for an universal field theory (as it pertained to physics)...you could too.
I want a girl who cares about me, and a girl who gives me privacy (not calling everyday to know what im doing, to check my celular for the calls and the messages, to let me go with my friends) and I like a girl who likes sports.
two things you need in coming days(or weeks) restore your confidence in yourself one thing that makes a woman sexy to many is the inner confidence and self assurance...basically let us know you dont really need us to survive. A unattainable( or seemingly unattainable) woman will be pursued harder than a easy one....not to all, but to the kind of guy you are likely looking for, it will be true. Learn not to totally depend on your guy being your sole sounding board for your relationship or emotional support. It isnt gonna be easy for you to find a guy that will give you the emotional support you seem to need...so maybe you should get used to him not being it..and develop other means of support in that area....then if you find one that can be...that is when you know that you have found something special. but really....Ive been checking in on ya for a while...and the one thing you seem to need more than anything else imo is confidence. You have very little confidence in yourself....and honestly izzybell...that just aint very attractive. Ive got lots more...but I think this is all that really applies to this thread.
OK, well... screw all of you. Your entire gender. I am forced to conclude that you all just "suck". Don't go messing with me. I've had it with you guys. there, better?
isabel it seems like you have always had a ton of relationship questions that you never really find the answers to. so lets try this....what traits have you seen as universal in the guys you have liked/been attracted to and the guys you have dated? it seems as if you have difficulty understanding the men you persue more than understanding men in general. remember men are people just like women and different men act differently which leads me to believe you persue certain types of men. so lets try this exercise....
If you use the same words but in a different context, you're much more likely to understand what men want.
A woman who doesn't start so many relationship threads. ------------------------------------------------------- Una mujer que no comienze tantas discusiones de relaciones amorosas.
There you have it. That's what guys want. Wait, I thought that's what women wanted. Man, now I'm really confused.
Mutual respect and respecting oneself. If you have to request love, you are not in the right relationship.
Not so many questions. If you have to worry about it this much then it isnt worth it. Hell, everyone here has known for years you aren't happy. I know this is going to sound harsh but I think its time to **** or get off the pot. You are either going to : a.) Leave Ferdi and get on with your life b.) Stay with Ferdi no matter what c.) Continue complaining Option C hasn't gotten you very far so its time to pick between A and B. Which ever you pick, stick to it. I know what it is like to be in a ****ty relationship and I'm sure a lot of others on here know as well. Leaving your comfort zone is scary and no fun but you know what, being in limbo sucks even worse. Maybe this will help This is you You are here Do This
I think we can all learn a lesson from this thread..... NEVER take relationship advice from a poster named "Master Baiter."
Isabel, I would usually not post in a relationship thread. But I sense a real sincerity in your threads. I want to suggest something to you. Do you really know what you want? If you try to understand what a man wants (nothing wrong with that) but don't understand what you need, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. I have read some of your posts and I think you sell yourself short in some ways and you also need to know what your real needs are from a relationship and then be given some encouragement that there is a good relationship out there for you. The character of a man and maturity determines alot of what a man focuses on. The more selfish a man is the more dangerous. YOu must know a man's true character before you enter a long term relationship (there are ways to know this). Loyalty is important to men, but they are often not very loyal themselves (roaming eyes and all). There is something special inside of you, I pray you find a man that sees it, appreciates it and cherishes it. If he has good character there is potential for a great relationship. Good luck.
