Walk and talk date places?

You're going to cripple this guy. He shouldn't be thinking about any of this junk. He should just plan a date he thinks she'll enjoy and try to have fun. Damn dude.

 

Take a stroll through 5th Ward.

 

I am not saying not to have fun. Have your fun. But just remember that in the back of your mind, a girl wants to know who you are.

Do you have ambitions, and my approach would be to be prepared to have some to show. I still don't see what's so "junky" about that.

 

Nothing.

I just don't like the idea of taking her to an art museum since she is a BA. Because she would be far more interested in your goals on a first date, not her goals.

 

Have you thought about putt putt golf?

 

So what you're saying is women are self centered and shallow and men should feed into this?

The first mistake in dating advise is assuming all women and men are the same. If we must generalize, I'll reassure you that women are much more interested in having a good time on a first date than worrying about how deep the wallet could run later.

 

Everybody, not just women, are self-centered. But that's another discussion. My reply wasn't meant to imply that women are self-centered. I also never mentioned a thing about money. I stated women like men who have ambition. If you equate ambition to money that's on you, but the two words aren't exactly interchangeable. Martin Luther King had ambition, but I doubt that he cared a whole heck of a lot about money.

But whatever, the mere mention of the fact that a guy and a girl don't fall in love at first sight, and the board goes ballistic on me.

 

Topic for conversation on your walk - manure is not such a bad thing, when you think about it.

 

His ambition is to bang this girl.

He knows that, she knows that, everyone on clutchfans knows that.

 

You can also have dinner at Benjy's than play pool next door at Kelvin Arm's.

 

In that case, the goal should be, whatever it takes to get those two bangin'.

 

Question is...does she want to bang him, does she want free dinner, or is it TBD?

 

I'd say it's TBD. She won't know that until atleast after the first date.

 

I have a feeling you've been thinking about it too much or you're a pro on first dates.

 

Fixed.