it just tells you that she was, maybe is still a freak, and it would be kind of hard to trust that person. Thats just me tho.
I'm haven't done the deed yet. 19 years currently. Too scared to ask and kinda scared of the deed itself.
Exactly, to each his own. I'm really just trying to say that the name-calling is kind of silly and shouldn't be done.
Nothing wrong with that. It is a special/weird/great/frightening experience all rolled into one that has many consequences and after effects. When you're ready, then you're ready.
Glad someone shares the sentiment. I was worried I was late to the party w/ everyone doing it so young out here.
I too was scared. but I was five years younger and didn't have the BBS as an advice outlet. So let me part some wisdom given to me by the great philosopher Humpty Hump just minutes before losing my virginity. You're lying on you're back with your head on the edge of the bed, The booty's two feet from your head: Should you: A, take the time to find a condom, B, you walk right over and you pound 'em, C, tell her that you want her love, Well the answer is D, all of the above. So you're freakin', the furniture's squeakin' She's tweakin', sayin' that she's weak in the knees. Cheek to cheek, and pound for pound, You're taxin' it and waxin' it and workin' it around, 'Til the booty starts makin' that clappin' sound, Which is cool, but your friends are chillin' in the other room. The clappin's getting louder, you don't want them to clown you, In this situation, what do you do: A, you, plain and simply, back up off her B, you hit it just a little bit softer, C, you take it out and put it in het butt, Well, D is what I do, so, yo, listen up: I put a towel on the floor by the two inch gap under the door Now they can't see me any more. Check the locks so they can't clock, but they can listen. There'll be no bargin' in and there'll be no dissin' Gettin' back to my mission, break out the whipped cream and the cherries, Then I go through all the fly positions
I agree with Lil Pun again in this thread. Our culture in regard to women has a major virgin / w**** problem. On the one hand we make a huge deal out of sex either as something to be go gotten or something to be avoided. On one hand we uphold the virgin as a moral paragon but at the same time we lust after the girl who puts out. Personally I think this dichotomy has really screwed up, pardon the pun, a lot of people. For better and worse we are sexual beings and unlike most species we are one of the few that species that engages in sex for more than just procreation. This whole idea about demonizing a women, or man, just because they enjoy sex and have had a lot of it is like getting upset at someone who enjoys eating a lot of different kind of food. IMO we would be better off if we treated sex less seriously and more as what it is a natural and enjoyable social intercourse, pun fully intended, rather than larding it up with either moral turpitude or splay it out in a desperate bid for attention.
This goes to my point. Why should you be afraid of something that is about as natural an act that you can do with someone else? I think you've bought into this social pressure that it has to be special the first time or that there is something wrong with you if you haven't had by X year. Don't worry about what society thinks about it when you're ready you're ready and don't get too worked up over it.
same thing happens to me. I was so scared that I actually ran away when the chicks I met in clubs want to have sex with me, cuz I was too worry that she would found out that I was a virgin when I was already 24. anyway, I lost when I was 28, so no worries
17, Girlfriend (16) in my bedroom. It was awesome..totally lived up to the hype. We went for 45 minutes...but MUCH shorter the second time around..I think I was concentrating so much the first time that I have a little trouble "finishing the deed"...but eventually did. Got my first BJ 3 days later...fantastic I still think about her everyday....she's my wife and we've been married 12 years and have 3 kids. Never a regret in my life!!! Never been with anyone else and no regrets about that either.
I was 14. She was 17. losing my virginity bore my first child. I am now 29 with a 14 year old. that same girl is now my wife and we have 3 other kids.
I'm impressed. But I'd be really impressed if your child has a kid within the next year. 30 year old grandpa?
A classic. My first was when I was 14. It was during a youth group lock-in at Jewish Community North. Never saw her again after that.
That was Shock G (same guy, different persona). I lost it on my wedding night at age 23. My wife lost it that same night at age 20. Twelve years, one month, and one day ago. I'm still in love. But that's an act of the will, not the feeling. But... the feeling only gets better.
