I don't blame him, lets just say my freshman year of high school was one to remember I see her every once in a while now, I'll say whats up to her in the hallways when I see her, it's kind of weird how we act like nothing happened between us. She wasn't a girlfriend, just a friend with benefits at the time.
16 in high school to a girl that was more experienced than I it was not a pretty sight for me as it was over pretty quickly. i went over to go study for ap us history when she said she had beer and her folks were out of town. and then it ensued she was surprised i still was actually it wasnt a girlfriend nor did she ever become a gf. i did see her a few times after graduation from hs but havent kept in touch i think about her occasionally since she was a cute girl. the very first time was bad but we went at it again after the initial embarrassment and it was better then
If I was going to lie about it, I'd say I still had my virginity. Of course, 1) I'm not going to, and 2) I've been on clutchfans and its predecessors way too long and everyone knows better. (though I actually was one during the old Clutch City days) anyway, person with many partners = guy slut or girl slut, gender doesn't matter. I was just surprised to see so many people telling stories of losing it at young ages... of course, it depends on people's lifestyles and priorities and those who haven't done much may not be posting in this thread, but for what it's worth, I had a bunch of guy friends in their early 20's where I used to live and none of them had done anything. Probably still true for most of them. When the time is right, they will get there. They just don't want to do one-night stands. I've known many other guys who were virgins well into their 20's and 30's. My ex was 37, and my fiance now is 26. and by the way... if a girl has let a guy in the backdoor, she should no longer count as a virgin. Neither should the guy. I think that should count as being actually less pure than someone who's just had regular sex.
I wish I would have saved myself for marriage! Seriously. I was just kidding around, I have a daughter and her name's not Jesus.
not that along ago for myself actually.. about 5yrs or so ago... with a close friend.. she was and is a free spirit.. so sex didn't ruin anything.. we still confide in eachother and keep a good friendship..
19 Girlfriend In my bedroom with the door locked and my entire family at home and awake It lived up to the hype for sure. Didn't happen too fast and wasn't all clumsy and everything like some people experience. I definitely don't regret it, because I actually cared about the girl and I think it was a good age and maturity level for me to lose it. She's still a MySpace friend or whatever, but I haven't seen her in years.
17 (over the summer before senior year) With my girlfriend at the time. It was more confusing\overwhelming than anything else. We were at her best friend's house, and her friend's mother was at home. We actually bummed a condom off the mom. I kept thinking "damn, I'm getting laid, damn!" That's about all I remember from that night. We wound up having sex constantly over the next month, but it was never that great. I never really was comfortable with her, and we never talked about how to make the sex better. We just did it. Then she cheated on me with one of her exes, and then I found out she had slept with over 100+ people . Got HIV tested after that. Luckily that turned out negative. I hadn't thought about her for years before this thread came up. I have no real ill will toward her, but she's not someone I ever think about.
I bought my first shotgun At the age of three. Fame, whiskey, and women, By the time that I was five. (name that song)
It was 2 months before I turned 15. July of 03. He was my best friend and we fell in love. I went down on him first even though I had NO idea what I was doing. Then we did it. It REALLY hurt for the first few moments, but it ended well. We didn't talk about doing it before. It just happened and it wasn't forced or awkward at all. It was a really beautiful experience, and I would never regret it.
Here: When I was 17, with bulgarian gf, in a hostel, with 7 other classmates in the room. (btw that's Zermatt, Switzerland)
I think that is a bad stance to take. I used to feel the same way and I am sure some of my post in the past may reflect that but I realize that it is none of my damn business. If you want to have sex with 1 person or 100, I'm not going to judge you because we each have our own preferences when it comes to clothes, sex, entertainment, or whatever it may be. Whoever you have sex with is none of my business really and I'm not going to judge you by a count of who you have slept with.
I think its a big deal if Im dating a girl and I find out shes been with 10 guys before me. Of course it depends on her age also. But wouldnt it make you think that maybe shes too easy?? You cant trust someone in a relationship, when you know that shes been around. So yeah, I think thats a big deal.
It might worry me if she was dating a guy and then was with 5 guys while she was supposed to be only with 1 and/or has a history of infidelity, otherwise no. There are some women who do enjoy casual sex just like men and when they are ready to settle down they do. I know a woman who has had sex with 57 men and is now happily married with a child and has been for 5 years. Does her husband know? I do not know but does he need to because it seems they are both happy.
If she's hiding it from her spouse, there's a problem. If he knows and is okay with it...then that's fine.
I was expecting a response like this. Why exactly is it a problem? It is in the past and happened before he even came along. I just think they don't discuss past sexual accounts and numbers. What's the point? How are you going to change it?
Obviously you cant change the past, but from knowing someones past, it tells you a lot about the person. If youve been with that person, lets say 10+ years and your happily married, then Im sure you wouldnt break the relationship because it wouldnt make sense. But if Im with a chick for 6 months or so and I find out she used to be a stripper and had sex with bunch of guys, then forget that, chunk the deuce!
What can their sexual histories tell you though? Like I said, if they had/have a history of cheating, infidelity, etc. then yeah but if it is just casual sex then what's the problem? I mean, if you have a problem with it then fine just don't go judging people and calling them derogatory names.
