My dad was not a sicko. He was a funny guy though, it is possible that he was just making a joke. I just started to believe it was true because he told it to me on more than one occasion. You had me beat with the 9 inches though.
I was 14, and my girlfriend at the time was 15. I still hold a special place for her in my heart. Awwww.
Didn't lose it until my freshman year in college. It was after a toga party during summer band. It was pretty great. No regrets about waiting until after high school (although it really wasn't up to me, was it....). I was a dork in high school but college gave me a chance to be a born-again player. Lot's of great mammories...er, memories. Actually, I guess both would apply.
Wow, a lot of people losing it early, if y'all are to be believed... Myself, I was 24. It was on my wedding night with my now ex-husband, at a motel in Corpus. Honestly, no, it did not live up to the hype. It's hard to get both people coordinated, and hard to set it up where the female can really feel what she needs to. It hurt some but not nearly as much as I expected. I also found out that the proverbial "steel rod" isn't as strong and invulnerable as I had been led to believe. So, yeah, neither of us were that physically comfortable and it was just like doing something you have to do because it's on your schedule. I don't think about him much, only when something happens to remind me of the old stories from that part of my life (because we were in a relationship for many years). Yes, I do regret it. I should not have slept with him or gotten that involved with him. But, life happens to some of us. When my fiance and I get married, it will be his first time; I wish it was mine too but at least it should be close enough, since I've been technically celibate for about three years now.
Well....I'll fully admit that I lied about it for a few years. When it actually happened, lying about it felt....stupid.
If everything goes right, I'll lose it this Christmas *knock on 50 feet tall redwood* Which would mean 4 days before I turn 21 It'll be both our first times (I think...) and I heard its better for both the boy and the girl to be slightly drunk for their first time... is this true?
Why would you lie about it? Everyone does it when they are ready. Not everyone is ready in high school. Maybe this is my age talking, but I don't see any reason to lie about it. A lot of my friends were still virgins when they got married, 23-24-25, heck that's the way they were supposed to do it since they are mostly Catholic. But it's not like its a big deal. When it happens it happens.
'catch a case'? elaborate, please and based on the stories in this thread, it seems like girls in the 80s were sexual predators..not that there's anything wrong with that
Why would you lie about it? It is a very sensitive subject for some and sex and components of it are often lied about. How else do explain girls saying something like 18, 19, 20 and then the guys saying 14, 15, 16 and I'm not just talking about on this board but I've seen that is all kinds of personal experiences.
Catch a case basically means a court case. You don't want to get with a drunk girl and then have her scream rape or sexual assault or whatever. A guy is way less likely to do such and if you don't get too drunk, it will help your stamina so to speak.
I was 15 or 16 can't really remember. I do remember that she was a senior and a really nice girl. She had been asking me to go to a formal with her. Me being a total dumbass never thought she was serious about actually wanting to take me (a few SR. guys where giving me hell for not going). Finally, she said she was being serious...so I went. She pretty much ignored me at the formal (hanging with friends etc.). She had a beach house with some of the other girls...needless to say I was NOT ignored there! On a scale of 1-10, about a 6ish: The thigh high stockings made it seem like a 12 though! It never happened again with her. ZERO regrets. I honestly don't know what happened to her.
A little buzzed is okay, but don't get too drunk! You'll get "whiskey dick" and probably won't be able to get off. And yes, I am speaking from experience.
Yeah I guess sensitivity could be why. I just never thought about it as a something to be defensive about.
