[Virginity] Play the waiting game or give it up ASAP?

No problem ( I too was poorly expressing myself... left off the smilie).

Well put points by the way... And you're right. It is hard for anyone on here (regardless of point of view) to make blanket statements that everyone can benefit from, or would agree with.

Sorry if I offended you...


(BTW- the rest of the post you responded to was kind of to "all the rest" of the voices in here... but glad you addressed them too....

Be sure of this... I am well aware of different situations in everyone's life...and I am MOST aware that it is best that we are not all alike, and do not all have the same experiences -especially when it comes to our "intimate" lives... I wouldn't wish every aspect of my experiences on others, just these few glimpses I've shared... I have been blessed, of course, but there are ugly parts to every story... and I've had my share. For every positive I'm willing to divulge, everyone must remember that positive is a relative term. I'm fully aware that to some -my positives are negatives, and vice versa... So there'll be no "looking down" on anyone else by me because they've not had my "storybook" or "Biblical" experiences... by no means do I feel that my way has been the only "right" experience... after all, the Lord does work in mysterious ways...)

We cool, man.. we cool.

 

Have you ever had a really bad steak? What if you couldn't send it back for another one immediately, but had to eat the whole thing over and over and over.

 

I get what you're saying... I was just playing along.


But... you can never compare a woman to another item... that is my point. She is a complex, fragile-yet-strong, enigmatic puzzle-of-a-human being that cannot be simply "used" at will without some consequence (either the cessation of use, or earning her eventual scorn -who's fury like Hell hath no).

FFB, I'm touched that you care.

I've never had bad "steak" btw. I know how to marinade and tenderize mine.

 

This is actually very good advice...don't get married just because you want to bang some hot chick...A relationship is more than just sex...Although, i'm of the opinion it's a very important part of a relationship...Sexual compatability that is...

I've been with many women, some I've loved, some I've loved for the night, but that's mostly been before I was married and after I was divorced...Just practice safe sex and keep in mind that while there is temptation everywhere, your personal decision will affect how you are perceived...Rightly or wrongly, as long as your comfortable, nothing else matters...

I can respect your decision, but c'mon your hispanic, they don't call us Latin lover for nothing... I still don't get how some people say oral isn't sex...It's still sex...but I digress...