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Thinking about asking my ex to marry me.

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by T-mac&Yao=RING, Nov 30, 2008.

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  1. SwoLy-D

    SwoLy-D Member

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    Don't say that at first. :eek: Try to stay together again, then see how it evolves from there. If you darn well know she's the one, then propose, but you've been away from her enough to allow your [ugh, am I about to say this?] love to rekindle and be reborn [/ yes, I did :( ] .

    Give it some time together again, then think about the proposal. I don't believe in FAST RESTARTs, but you seem to have it all in order. Still, you need time.

    The little arguments will turn into big arguments, but that's what a HEALTHY relationship needs to grow stronger. You both will know what each other wants and doesn't want out of those small and big arguments.

    And I don't give a freak about your italics either, sir.

    I haven't stopped smileyticonitizing my posts by now, either... it's been about 3 years and I still do it... they haven't given up asking me to stop... but... ;)
     
  2. ima_drummer2k

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    Oh, I agree. You guys argue a lot to the point of breaking up and now you want to marry her because you miss her.

    Go ahead and get married. What could possibly go wrong?

    Happy nuptials.
     
  3. Rule0001

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    Lol. On an unrelated note, I was always wondering how you edited your posts with "last edited by your mom". It has taken me 5 decades to realize that it was/is your sig. I'm a genius.
     
  4. SwoLy-D

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    Ditto. For two years, I also thought "last edited by your mom" meant my mom was actually a mod of this bbs. :( Carry on.
     
  5. T-mac&Yao=RING

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    OK I see what you're saying, but thats not why I didn't won't to marry her at first. The real reason was becasue I was cheated on by my ex before her and I just didn't want to rush into marriage. I told her this over and over when we was together and she just kelt telling me that shes not my ex, and she promise she will never hurt me.

    We was going out for about a year, but we were friends before we got into a relationship.
     
  6. SwoLy-D

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    Karl Malone...? Is that you asking CF.net fans for advice? You got some nerve, sir!!!! :mad: I'm happy Boki tore your jersey!!
     
  7. T-mac&Yao=RING

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    Yes I believe she may be the one I wasn't sure, but now I am. The reason is becasue since our brake up I've tried to talk to other females and forget about her, not date or anything but just talk. And it just didn't work well everytime I'm talking to a female I'm thinking of her.

    Oh yea and you have made me proud to keep my italics. ;)
     
  8. DaDakota

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    Just do it....what could go wrong?

    ;)

    DD
     
  9. ima_drummer2k

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    My Grandfather married my Grandmother for THIS EXACT REASON and they've been happily married for 75 years.

    MARRY THIS WOMAN NOW!
     
  10. Lady_Di

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    How old are you?

    Don't propose to her just because you miss her.

    My fiance had a 7 months break and we went without speaking for first 3 months.

    So it might be good if you guys had a break and you guys can think what went wrong in your relationship. We fought A LOT before we broke up and ever since we got back together almost a year ago, we haven't had too many BIG fights.

    We won't get married until 2010 to make sure we're settled in our relationship with no major issues.

    Sometimes, you guys just need to grow up to have a healthy relationship...
     
  11. T-mac&Yao=RING

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    I'm 23 and shes 22. And its more about me just missing her, although thats part of it. I think we needed this brake becasue it has help me to see what I want now.

    May I ask you some questions about the 7 months brake up you had? I really would like to know how did yall get back together after beening apart for so long. Did yall try to date other people at the time?
     
  12. DaDakota

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    If you were not typing in Italics would you know the difference between "brake" and "break"?

    :)

    DD
     
  13. Jebus

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    I have an idea- you should edit your quotes so that they don't show up in italics.

    That way your italics in your posts will stand out even more.
     
  14. Lady_Di

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    We ended on bad terms so we didn't speak first 3 months and I didn't run into him too much(we have mutual friends) because he had moved to another city for his job temporarily. I really thought it was over so I tried to date people because I was in an vulnerable state which resulted into some idiotic decisions. One day, I just decided to contact him then I guess after that, we started talking again but didn't get back together until he moved back to Houston. Sometimes, things happen and you just go with the flow.
     
  15. mlwoo

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    "Yo, girl. Will you marry me?

    I propose in italics, not down on one knee."


    -T-mac&Yao=RING
     
  16. Hayesfan

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    maybe the problems stem from you being unable to spell the word break?

    Brake - what stops your car from moving

    Break - what you are currently on
     
  17. T-mac&Yao=RING

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    Naw I would have still made the same mistake.
     
  18. T-mac&Yao=RING

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    It was a mistake.
     
  19. T-mac&Yao=RING

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    Well thats a nice story, I guess some people are just meant for each other. I hope mines can go the same way.
     
  20. mlwoo

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    FIFY.
     

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