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The Question: # of sexual partners? Do you ask it?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Franchise3, Jan 28, 2009.

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  1. DonnyMost

    DonnyMost Member

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    I agree.

    Some guys on here have some really.. interesting sexual expectations.
     
    #21 DonnyMost, Jan 28, 2009
  2. Fatty FatBastard

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    Reread this post a few more times. I think you'll see that the # doesn't matter one iota. On the contrary, gents. What's to say a girl doesn't get ancy later on in life because they didn't see what else was out there.
     
    #22 Fatty FatBastard, Jan 28, 2009
  3. BrieflySpeaking

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    No dude, you don't know what you're talking about. Just because I mention something like that doesn't mean I'm actually like that.
     
    #23 BrieflySpeaking, Jan 28, 2009
  4. no_answer

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    Who cares how many people they've slept with? As long as they don't have an STD and they're only sleeping with you while you are dating then who cares?
     
    #24 no_answer, Jan 28, 2009
  5. professorjay

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    I can't believe some of you guys. And I do mean the males. Get over yourselves.

    I don't care, don't want to know, it doesn't matter. If she voluntarily tells me, fine. All that matters is the number while we're together. (That's 1, including myself, before anyone gets their zingers ready.)
     
    #25 professorjay, Jan 28, 2009
  6. rhadamanthus

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    You must have weird conversations then. Generally, one speaks in such a manner as to portray one's personality or intention. I guess you live in some sort of Yakov Smirnoff fantasy world.

    Out of curiosity, how's that go over on a date?

    BrieflySpeaking: Hey, I think this may be a serious relationship we have here, and I think it's reasonable for us to share our past sexual history with each other. Because, you know, if you've had a subjectively large number of partners, I think that's unacceptable.
    Uninterested Woman: Well, uh, that's interesting, but it's none of your business and I was not interested in being serious with you anyhow.
    BrieflySpeaking: Oh well, than I recommend we have sex with abandon, as it is of no consequence.
    Uninterested Woman: But then I would have another sexual partner, which by your absurd logic would make me less appealing for a serious relationship!
    BrieflySpeaking: Oh no baby, just because I mention something like that doesn't mean I'm actually like that. In BrieflySpeaking's world, car drives you!
     
    #26 rhadamanthus, Jan 28, 2009
  7. JamesC

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    Hell yea I want to know. That is a very relevant question. I understand the past is the past but I dont want to be blind sided by something I dont know about.
     
    #27 JamesC, Jan 28, 2009
  8. BrieflySpeaking

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    LOL??? IT WAS A JOKE GUY, I have NEVER hit-it-and-quit-it with someone. And I dont think I ever will. I'm not like that. That was a good story tho.
     
    #28 BrieflySpeaking, Jan 28, 2009
  9. Fatty FatBastard

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    I'm 36. I can say that, thanks to Facebook, I know a lot of girls who had a promiscuous side when they were younger. Most are now happily married with kids.

    The past tells you nothing about the person's future, period.
     
    #29 Fatty FatBastard, Jan 28, 2009
  10. Lady_Di

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    QFT of the day!
     
    #30 Lady_Di, Jan 28, 2009
  11. JuanValdez

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    Yeah, I'd want to know. Not that it has come up in the last 15 years. It wouldn't be some sort of evaluative tool, just a masochistic need to know. Even masochism aside, to have a black box in an important part of your SO's history doesn't seem like wise relationship-building.
     
    #31 JuanValdez, Jan 28, 2009
  12. rhadamanthus

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    Thanks. I knew it was a joke. But I still think your ideas regarding a woman's past are a tad unfair.
     
    #32 rhadamanthus, Jan 28, 2009
  13. Yonkers

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    What if she pulled a Wilt Chamberlain. Let's say she is clean. But she's had 10,000 dudes.

    Edit:
    One more extreme. What if it was one of the girls in 2 girls, 1 cup.
     
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  14. Yonkers

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    Damn, that's pretty funny, Rhada. :D
     
    #34 Yonkers, Jan 28, 2009
  15. Shaud

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    Yes I want to know how many and what positions she was put in.
     
    #35 Shaud, Jan 28, 2009
  16. yo

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    Fast-foward to 7:30 for insight.

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    #36 yo, Jan 28, 2009
  17. Franchise3

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    This is actually a very good example.

    I had a situation like this, though it was in my early 20s, and it ended up being one of the factors that helped me reform my ideas on the subject. I was going out with a girl for a couple months, and her roommate made a comment about how she was more sexually experienced than herself by at least a few partners. I wasn't really interested in her number before that point, but curiosity got the best of me because of that comment. Both of our numbers were relatively low at that point, but her's was a couple higher than mine.

    At that moment, I got a pit in my stomach. I don't know if it was because up to that point I had this idealized standard that the only girls I wanted to date were pure as the driven snow, or if it was because I somehow perceived it to be a slight to my manhood because I always just assumed the guy should be the more sexually experienced one. I actually started to think hard about if I wanted to date her anymore. She was an awesome girl. Very down to earth, not gossipy or catty like a lot of girls her age, she bent over backwards to do nice things for me, and she took a genuine interest in my interests (she went to my school's basketball games with me and watched with interest, rather than acting like it was a chore).

    Turned out she had a higher number than me at that point because she lost her virginity younger than I had, and she had a couple more relationships in high school and early college than I had. I soon realized that it was pretty stupid to even consider breaking up with her. I liked her a lot, and she was a great girl. It seemed stupid to reconsider out entire relationship based on a number, especially one that I had no context or background on.

    Rezdawg, don't screw up your relationship with that girl if your definition of a "kind of shady" past is her having a few more sexual partners than you perceive as ideal.
     
    #37 Franchise3, Jan 28, 2009
  18. Asian Sensation

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    Wow, let me know where you find your girls or found your girl.
     
    #38 Asian Sensation, Jan 28, 2009
  19. KingCheetah

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    Nope.
     
    #39 KingCheetah, Jan 28, 2009
  20. Yonkers

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    What a weird response. Is it really that hard to find someone that matches those criteria? Is it too much to think that any 26-yr old at all has only had 4 other partners?
     
    #40 Yonkers, Jan 28, 2009
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