I don't know if that was directed to me or A-Train, but whoever it was directed to, I should hope not! BTW, the longer you are with a girl/woman, the more able you can train yourself to wait until you know they are ready to do their thing. At least that is what I believe.
Thats amazing manny considering last year you were 33 years old and still didn't know where the penis went.
Well moes, actually last year I was married (have been married for 17 months now). Besides, it is not that hard. Even you can figure that one out, so you don't have to sweat about that anymore dude.
You can stop acting like I'm not getting under your skin. Its not that I'm trying to rag on you for the hell of it Ramirez, I've been around you long enough to know what you're all about. and let me tell you this... You want your opinion to matter most of all. You've got to be the expert. You own 6,000,000 records, You need to be in the know. You have to be the voice of experience, you hate being left out of a conversation. In a short manner of time you went from relative n00b to BBS Historian with a post count in the top 10%. I mean I (and not just I) found it extremely hilarious how you went from the 40 year old virgin to Dr Kinsey in a matter of 6 weeks after you got married. I mean it isn't that you aren't entitled to voice your opinions... but you seem like you'd die if you weren't absolutely included in on some important topics. I'd be willing to bet 80% of the posts you've made since you got married have been in some way related to your marriage. Its worse than EddieWasSnubbed talking about his girlfriend. You're a nice guy Manny, and I know it isn't in your nature to be cruel. But after the smoke had cleared you found it easy to dogpile on guys like Heyp and MacBeth. Not out of spite, but out of envy. You covet their status on this board even if they're viewed in a negative light. You belittle them only because all the cool kids are doing it. A lot of prominent members on this board can see through your so-called good intentions, and I know a few posters you consider "friends" think you're a bit obsessive. I just wish you'd learn to lighten up a bit, you take this BBS entirely too seriously for your own good. You have a life now... enjoy it.
moes, It's always hard to figure out when you are being serious or not; however, I take it that you are being serious. I guess me not going into chat anymore has made me an outsider to guys like you and Rockets2K. I'm not dumb - I'm sure you and R2K have had "discussions" about the Hangout lately and various posters. I could care less if I am in those discussions. Actually, I find it funny that y'all would waste your time on talking about me anyway. And I am the obsessive one? Okay.... If I am guilty of anything, it is probably posting too much about my personal life and expressing my displeasure of people who post whoppers. If that makes me a bad guy to a bunch of college kids (for the most part) who spend most of their time in a chatroom, then I guess I am Darth Vader. I really don't care anymore. I have been thinking about either lurking or leaving the board altogether anyway. I guess I'll go quietly once I hit 17k in posts. Then you and R2K and everybody else in the chat that used to enjoy talking to me can have your wish - that I am off enjoying my real life.
I don't remember seeing that post, but it's pretty interesting. Why is that obsessive? We all have our obsessions. I wouldn't disagree that Manny has his share, for sure, but we are what we are. I think Ridley Scott is the devil for claiming that I'm a replicant. I'm more interested in orgasms!
I never had an orgasm via intercourse until I was 22 or 23, only through oral sex. I think sex becomes better when you age because you know your body better. It is very true that women have a harder time having one during intercourse.
Mmm...I love it when women talk about sex... I find the study a little troubling...Such as the perception that men are lazy and don't equally satisfy their partner...That's not all men, maybe just younger men... Experience helps, and that comes with age...I'm a giver and honestly, would rather my partner get off than me...I last too long sometimes, more so the second time...I've had women that have had an easy time having orgasms and i've had women that took a lot of effort...It helps if the women you're with are in touch with themselves and know their bodies...My last g/f had mutliple O's all the time...but she was a freak so maybe if a person is sexually liberated, then it's easier...who knows... Of course, maybe the questions were after one night hook-ups...After a night of drinking, maybe men do get lazy just want to hit it and quit it...I never understood that..
There is no doubt that sex improves with experience. I'm concerned about generalizations, however. Different women, and men, have orgasms frequently, and some do not. It's more difficult for men to have multiple orgasms, for sure, but some do. Women can have numerous orgasms during one bout of lovemaking, numerous as in a couple of dozen really powerful, blowin' the doors off orgasms, but some have one and it is so intense that they have to stop and catch their breath. In my opinion, after the most important component, the freeing of oneself to become immersed in the act, with emotion for the partner a strong influence, but not always needed, it is the guy that is the key. If he knows what he's doing, his woman should be more than satisfied. Should she still have problems having the Big O, it wouldn't hurt to do something completely different from the usual. (and everyone can get into a rut, no pun intended, with sex... you have to work at keeping things fresh) Just a thought. The main thing to remember is that we are all different and have different requirements to get off. If you aren't getting off, change the game. Just stay in the game. (my opinions, of course!)
