thats priceless...it was the first thing that came to mind when I read that.! also LOL at swilkins post...
Girl: Cries frequently when emotionally upset by trivial matters. Woman: Cries frequently when emotionally upset by trivial matters. Girl: Has no idea what she wants, but can definitely tell you what she doesn't want. Woman: Has no idea what she wants, but can definitely tell you what she doesn't want. Girl: Must have plastic jewelry Woman: Must have real jewelry Girl: Hasn't developed, physically. Woman: Has developed, physically. -- droxford
Perhaps. Women say men are too insensitive; men say women are too emotional. Neither is "right" or "wrong". It's just one of those Mars/Venus things. But keep in mind: our emotions, "trivial" or not to you, are important to us. (and don't you care about us?) If you at least act like you care about everything we feel, and act like you are willing to help (and follow up on it most of the time), then I guarantee you that you are going to get a lot more of whatever you came here for. From women, that is. Girls may not be mature enough yet to appreciate someone who appreciates them. In that case, forget the girls and hold out for a woman.
all of this makes sense from a guy that has went from a relationsihp with y'alls definition of a woman to a relationship with y'all's definition of a girl....
I do care, and I am sensitive to a woman's tears, even if it's trivial. I have to accept it, and deal with it gently. Long ago, I realized that I must do so, in order to be thoughtful of her emotions, thoughtful of her pain, and realizing that something is important to her. But that doesn't mean I have to like it. I friggin' hate it when a woman cries about stupid, trivial stuff (as almost all women do, regularly). And what's even more aggravating is that I have to be sensitive and caring to a woman because of her ridiculous wasted tears. I have to cover up that frustration and disguise it with a soft shoulder and a gentle kiss. that's what a man does. -- droxford
