For the numerous asking, "what's the problem?" I am becoming increasingly aware that rather than "stuck with friends with benefits", the more pressing issue at hand seems to be, "in love with questionably murderous sociopath". If the powers at be want to make the appropriate changes to the thread title be my guest.
Lol, homie, this is New York. There ain't no hometown sweethearts desperate to be off the market. These are society girls with their eyes on the prize. Upper east side condo's, vacation homes, guys with immaculate jawlines, big names, European men, etc. When she says she's not ready, it means she hasn't met that guy yet. All smart people are sociopath's on the inside, but only the good looking ones can pull it off. I.e... ain't nobody got time for no chubby computer programmer! Your best bet is to put your head down, be a good guy, and stay an on the side ho texting her <3's and listening to her pretend she doesn't know what she wants until she's exhausted all measures to move up and the mirage of the shark she was waiting to be snatched up by is acceptably replaced by a guppy . Then you can have your moment in the sun. Heh Heh Heh. P.S. I alone am in a relationship with 3 women you could call flawless. That's what happens when you're THAT guy. Once you're in you're in, and for the outsiders... just milk it while you can. So keep the ball rolling and don't set up shop, cuz she's already got one leg out tha door. Waiting for a Honey B to sweep her off her feet.
Damn. Honey B playing no games. A little better off than the chubby computer programmer, but I hear what you are saying though. Definitely still working on that immaculate jawline. Appreciate the advice, and also the heads-up on sweeping in.
yes.. is OP trolling? (hey OP it's still a nice story btw) Falling for a freak is not a good place to be and can happen to the best of us. when the rack is that nice all other conversation is garbage. perfect t*** are like kryptonite to rational thinking. I feel ya bra. this is why you enjoy it and smash as hard as you can as many times as possible.. for your sake temporary. This gal has been put on the earth to be smashed. She's even told you this. Take it for what it is and take some freaking pics if you can. just remember ..You are the man. This girl is never going to get any better than now.. and this. seems like a good problem to have. and thats with nothing.She isnt going to improve. Imagine being in a relationship with her? wtf.. she sucks ..and again she is for smashing repeatedly if you are doing it right. Dont let emotions cloud you. your problem is a hard dick has no conscious. You dont want to wife her are you craze?..she is a b*tch anyway why hang with her since shes smart. You are never going to be able to enjoy her more than now temp smashing anyway so be strong about it and hit strong. A btw so what if she is smart. yawn. I have a few friends with freaks as mothers and the guy in the end gets custody by default every damn time. Thats what I mean by having her at her best time now. you are over looking into this OP. I can tell that you can tell. You know it.. and like a pimple you need to let it ride its course. Everything else like relationship or kids with her would be total sh**it trust me. telling. but I agree.. completely.. do not take foot off gas cxbby and pray you dont get her pregnant. Go for it. ABC Always be closing.
You've fallen for her. Friends will never be in the equation imo. Friends with benefits sounds great, but since you have fallen for her, when she has other friends like you and you know she's with other guys, its going to drive you crazy. Like I said. you're going to have to make a choice. If you stick with it, you have a bumpy road ahead, and there is a chance that it will be all for naught, but if it pans out, you will be on top of the world. I told my "friend" a few times that i could not just be one of her friends, and the only way to get over her was to cut all ties. She fought with me to stay with her. Eventually, she told me she needed me in her life, and now things are really good. Now, if I find out that I am just one of her guys, I will cut ties.
She's the crazy sociopath? You know all this about her and you love her? What does this say about you? The problem here is you have NO idea what love is. It would be one thing if you were messing around with her, enjoying the sex and having fun BUT you say you "love" this girl? Whatever. You know deep down you'll NEVER have this girl, and this drives you crazy and fans the flames for your desire for her. What you can't have you want even more. The problem here is you haven't thought this all the way through. Let's just say you were to get this girl....and you married her. You know who and what she's all about. You think she's going to stop being with other men even if you were married to her? You going to be ok with that? She says she's going to be out with friends one night...you going to believe her? Get ready to be a detective because that's what you're going to become. You'll never trust her because you know who and what she is because SHE TOLD YOU WHO SHE IS from the very get go. She'll ruin every area of your life. Think she'd be a good mother to your kids? She screw your friends, family members, neighbors, business associates, and you're going to be good with all of this? So you're willing to put up with all of her **** because she's witty, smart, has great t***, and is a freak in bed? If the answer is yes, what does this say about you? Again you're not in this for a good time and great sex. You're in love with her and want a relationship with this sociopath. If this plays out the way you want it (a relationship with her) every bad thing that she's going to do to you you'll have coming to you. You need to know the nature of something. That way you'll know what they're capable of. Would you play with a rattlesnake? Don't be surprised when the rattlesnake bites you. It's time to start thinking with your head and NOT your pecker. The funny thing is she's told you she's a sociopath but she'd never murder anyone ("that's where she draws the line"). And you believe her? You're not the sharpest tool in the shed are you?
Help, a hot chick with amazing t*** wants to have sex with me with no strings attached. This aggression cannot stand, man.
And what's the problem? You seem like the girl in this relationship lol Also, please kill yourself for typing #YOLO, #YADOUCHE
Tell her that you love her at any chance you get. Talk about having children together and growing old and seeing your kids go to college and grandchildren. Always look deeply into her eyes, you don't have to say a word. Buy flowers and chocolates for her weekly. Lastly don't forget to keep her phone occupied with your number.
Everyone is friends with benefits. The benefits are relatively constant; it's the terms of "friendship" that's negotiable.
