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Stuck with friends with benefits

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by CXbby, Mar 1, 2013.

  1. sugrlndkid

    sugrlndkid Member

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    "Ho's never close their open like hallways..."
     
  2. robbie380

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    btw what does being a total "freak" include?
     
  3. boomboom

    boomboom I GOT '99 PROBLEMS

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    this.
     
  4. HR Dept

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    Do nothing. You'll be into someone else in a week or two.

    Your problem is that you're putting the p***y on a pedestal.
     
  5. Ziggy

    Ziggy QUEEN ANON

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    Act like you're better than her. Too busy for her. Don't like how she performs in the sack. She'll come around. Quit it til' you hit it.
     
  6. robbie380

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    There's no coming around for this chick. She is completely emotionally detached from how it sounds which is like stripper level emotional train wreck. She will just move on from how CX laid things out.
     
  7. gnozahs

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    Pics of breasts or else.

    I've had 2 fwbs in the past and both started to develop feelings for me which led to me cutting off ties with them.

    If she doesn't want a real relationship, then there's nothing you can do about it.
     
  8. tmoney1101

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    Impregnate her.
     
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  9. gnozahs

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    What if you catch something while trying to impregnate her? :p
     
  10. CXbby

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    100% nutso.

    And I am not trying to fix her. Obviously the other traits are strong enough to overshadow the fact that she is a sociopathic slut. This is literally the most intelligent human being I have known. Intimidatingly so. And flaunts it without abandon with sharp wit and humor. The chick is awesome.

    And did I mention, great t***.

    I think she has a date tonight to "play" with a married couple. At least bringing up 3somes won't be an issue.

    Dude, not even close. Like robbie said, this is not your typical insecure emotional chick. Act like I'M too busy for her? She's got 20 other dudes to ****. She wouldn't even remember my name. She's the dude; I'm the b****.
     
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  11. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    Just enjoy the ride - and post about it.

    :)

    DD
     
  12. robbie380

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    Does she do coke yet?
     
  13. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    This. Just keep doing what you're doing and don't keep telling her how much you love her. At some point, it will hit a point where she wants to move on or you end up a couple before she has a chance to figure it out.
     
  14. Falcons Talon

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    You're in for a rough ride. Kind of been going through this. I can empathize. If you take the typical advice and play the field or walk away and wait for her to come around, you take big chance in losing her. Huge risk! If you stick with her, you are going to be in for a lot of pain and not knowing if you are just wasting your time. What I did was I told her that I couldn't just be her friend and the only way to get over her was to cut ties completely. no contact whatsoever. It was a power play, and I was ready to not have any contact with her, and it started a huge argument. Before the end of the day, she was calling me back. That didnt get fix things, but at least we both knew where we stood. It still took months for us to get where we are now. Staying with her is a risk you have to choose to take. Mine paid off, but there were times when I was ready to quit her cold turkey. I'm glad I didn't.
     
  15. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    :confused: Are you not married any more? Sorry if I missed anything and am opening old wounds.
     
  16. Falcons Talon

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    Nope. Not opening old wounds. Ive been gone for awhile. separated/divorced over a year now.
     
  17. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    Sorry to hear it, man. I'm sure at this point, sorry sounds silly (that's how I felt if people said that to me a year after), but it still sucks I'm sure.

    Haven't seen you posting lately, so good to see a familiar name.
     
  18. Falcons Talon

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    Nah, I appreciate it. Life has changed once again for me. I can see I'm the common denominator here. What can I do but just keep living my life. It is good to see some old friends here.
     
  19. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    Just make sure the next one drives a Mustang. That's what I did. :)
     
  20. dafranchise0309

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    AMEN!!
    But in all seriousness, whats the problem?? You're banging a hot asian girl who doesn't want to settle down. Continue to go with the flow but dont start acting stalker-ish bc you want to marry this woman.

    We all know girls who are kind of nuts have the best cooch on the planet. Some girls around that age just want to have fun and not really have anything too serious...
     

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