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So my girlfriend just told me she lost interest in man and want to break up

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by ClutchCity3, Jun 1, 2016.

  1. donkeypunch

    donkeypunch Contributing Member

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    Need photos of said GF to determine if you should leave that lying conniving b****.
     
  2. REEKO_HTOWN

    REEKO_HTOWN I'm Rich Biiiiaaatch!

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    Words to live by.
     
  3. FTW Rockets FTW

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    Need pics of both your girlfriend and your girlfriend's girlfriend so we can offer better advice
     
  4. Exiled

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    3some idea is terrible ,what's the odd her GF is a male .this alone 'll make your experience more painful .


    For more advises please subscribe to my weekly channel .you must be 18 at least with credit card and I.d ,if our lines is busy please try again.

    remember ..there is nothing we can't fix even if it's a broken heart. ..thx
     
  5. Jontro

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    I've had my heart shattered by the supposed "One" before. You'll move on given time... a loottt of time.

    No go for the 3some breh. MMF is not the way to go.

    Find a rebound, hurt her feelings, then move on. You'll eventually find the right "One" sooner or later.

    Look on the bright side, our Rockets will be a powerhouse next season with The Anthony!
     
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  6. Dgn1

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    You didn't do nothing wrong, she's just a carpet muncher now. You'll get over it and laugh about soon. Stings for awhile but ain't nothing for a stepper.
     
  7. Damion Laverne

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    Booze and whores
     
  8. mvpcrossxover

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    AirBnB is a new thing for casual fling. It's going to overtake Tinder soon. Quote me on it.

    I don't know whether or not you're friend with her friend. There's a chance she's telling the truth if you know her friend. If you don't, I think she's lying for sure. Shouldn't had let her go hangout with her 'friend'.
     
  9. Jontro

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    I quoted you breh.

    Never heard of AirBnB, just looked it up. So guests getting it on with the host? Not too shabby.
     
  10. moestavern19

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    If I were you I'd not get hung up on the details of what is true and what isn't. The point is the relationship is over and she has moved on to someone else. Does it matter if its a man or a woman? Not in the long run.

    The "one" is foolish thinking in general. We change too much over a lifespan. I used to think I found "the one" as well, and at that point in time it may have been true, but definitely not for a lifespan.

    I learned not to think about who I was going to spend the rest of my life with and just appreciate who I'm spending today with. Tomorrow is never guaranteed.

    A relationship ending is hard to deal with, but it is also a chance to discover yourself again, find out what you want to do as a singular life form with free will and no attachments. Relish that time. Pain is temporary. Find meaning in yourself before you seek it anyone else.
     
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  11. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    She's basically doing you a favor. Thank your lucky stars and move on with your life.
     
  12. PhiSlammaJamma

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    I would agree, you got lucky. Marriage would suck with a Lesbian. She did u a favor. And you are not alone. This does happen.
     
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  13. cheke64

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    I don't understand why people always want to hang on tothese thotties. Is she white? They always trying to upgrade you.
     
  14. hotballa

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    Perfect time to move away and start over. Have you thought of moving to New York perhaps? I've heard that museums are hiring.
     
  15. RocketManJosh

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    When you are dating and not married, lying of that fashion should be an automatic eject button for you. Be smart and move on no matter the pain. I promise you it will not get better after marriage/kids/life/etc.
     
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  16. Rocket River

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    1. Turn on the Hot water. . .not scalding but hot
    2. Get in and let it wash over you
    3. Think about what you want to do next. . . .
    4. Feel everything you gonna feel
    5. Let it all go and fall down the drain
    6. Get out dry off and move on like a BOSS

    I would like to tell you to fight for that you want but the two of you have to be interested in fighting. One person fighting rarely works

    Make you peace with the situation.
    Then make you way out of the situation.

    Sounds like she cheating
    Sounds like she already gone
    That being the case time for you to do the same

    It's gonna be ok . . .. .
    I hope like hell you don't live together.

    Time to go be a ManWhore for a few months maybe a year or so
    :) . . get ya confidence back up.
    Then
    Try again

    Rocket River
     
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  17. Rocket River

    Rocket River Member

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    'The One' gets alot of people

    Remember If they are a 1 in a Million kind of girl
    They are still like 3000 of her out there.

    Rocket River
     
  18. tehG l i d e

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    what the *** is this?
     
  19. pippendagimp

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    she's too old for you. swap her for a newer model
     
  20. LosPollosHermanos

    LosPollosHermanos Houston only fan
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    worst thing you can do is get hung up on one girl. You're (prolly) in your prime go out embarrass yourself, get turned down, laid, w.e it is.


    We've all been there but the important thing to realize is never to spread your net too thing.
     
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