i understand what you're saying and it was unnecessary. i'm getting way too emotional about it. it just irks me, that's all.
Hey just because you don't agree with my post doesn't mean you should call it stupid. If you don't like it just say why and thats it. We all come from different walks of life and different backgrounds. I may not like some of things you do in your life but I won't go calling it stupid. And Jeff you are right I probably should not be talking to my g/f like that. But you don't know my g/f nor do you know how the situation came about. Just like we don't know macalu or his g/f's situation other than what he tells us.
I'm not sure I would talk to ANYONE the way you claim to speak to your girlfriend, so it is irrelevant whether I know her or how the situation came about.
Well that’s fine Jeff. I understand where you are coming from. I usually am a nice guy and I treat her well. Very well. But what happened was she was trying to not treat me the same as she did when we first got together and I complained about it in my own way. I felt like she was using the old no sex routine to get what she wanted and I shot that sh** down. Daddy needs his medicine or he gets cranky.
LOL @ Dream! oh that would be crazy. hey macala do you still find her attractive? do you still want to be with her? it seems like you still care for her since you arent just walking out on her maybe you could motivate her into working out. what she said was stupid.. she has probably noticed you arent attracted to her or not as much and it hurts her. Women are more intuitive than you think and if she said that it must be on her mind. my advice.. if you really care for her. Make some time to do activities together (such as walking/ excercise) you guys will both grow/benefit from it. J
Man, if I ever made a comment like "there are millions of women in this world that wished they had a man like me. Why don't you go tell your friends who don't have a man about how I am in the sac. See what they tell you." ...to my wife, you know what her response would be? "OK." And out the door she'd go. I wouldn't blame her. Hell, if nothing else, she'd figure I had just given her a "free pass" to check out some of those other guys. And I would have asked for it. (anyone watch Curb Your Enthusiasm on HBO? ) Of course, I wouldn't think of saying any such thing, knowing my wife as well as I do, and placing some value on my private parts and other possible receptacles of violence, so I don't have to worry. I'm a subtle guy. Any of you dudes notice how successful the "early morning ambush" is? I spring this every once in a while. Surprises her, since I'm a night owl, and keeps her on her toes. I don't like being too predictable. She tries not to be too predictable as well. It works very well.
I love the NON-SERIOUS responses in this thread...some of you guys have such a great sense of humor . Anyway, I think it's really a problem. Call it superficial...but if a girl gains a lot of weight, it might not be her fault, whatever...but "being attracted to someone" is something that has to do with physical attraction to some extent...and to be honest, I think DaDakota is right.
Behad, I think he was just inspired by the philosopher Nietzsche. "When thou goest to woman, take thy whip."
I thought this was the fuc**ing hangout This guy hasn't said he doesn't like my comments nor has he asked me to not give him my feedback. Why you would want to make this thread thats in the hangout ugly is behond me. I don't like you referring to anything that has to do with me by calling it stupid. I never would treat another poster by saying something like that to something that was not intened to have that type of response. The clutch city police have allowed this in the debate area and are trying to put a cap on it and here you go with a response like that. I'm here because I'm a rockets fan and I felt like giving my 2 cents to this guy who was asking for it. Yet you want to derail this guys thead. Whatever dude you can think what I say is stupid but if you continue to act that way when I'm trying to be peacefull then its more than likely that I'm about to be kicked out and banned. I'm a grown ass man and unless I disrespect you first then I can / will handle the heat but I did nothing of the sort. And I will just leave things at that.
