from the looks of it if you "ride it out" she will probably be grateful and it is safe but I bet you could convince her to "get it on" w/ you before marriage.
Where did you get that i havnt gone to college?! lol just cuz i dont have a gf doesnt mean im not having a fun time
That's what I was referring to when I told him that he was "looking in the wrong place" if he wanted to get laid. Arab girls are rather conservative about sex, they will go out on dates and hold hands and do all that, it's difficult to get them to actually 'do it' before marriage. So this is par for the course. I am sure it doesn't surprise the OP either since he is, according to him, a Muslim Arab, so he should be familiar with that.
You should'nt throw stones If you live in a glass house And if you got a glass jaw You should watch your mouf Cause I'll break your face
If you're looking to screw other people, then I would just make it a friendly relationship. There's some karma points to consider, and if you're a decent person, then at least keep it honest. I get the feeling that her type is the kind who doesn't know what she really wants either. Down the line, if she becomes a person you admire, then it might work out for the better.
If her desire to not have sex before marriage is such a big deal to you, my thinking is you're likely not the right guy for her anyways.
au contraire... that might be the most apparent possibility... but another.. just as equally possible... if she is that type of person.. and that is the end result.. 'down the line'... it could very well work out.. for the worst...
Summary: OP wants to bang girl because she has a nice body, but discovers she won't put out until marriage and is now pondering if there are any 'loopholes' around this issue.
lol some seriously **** happened tonight which made me re think of everything, lol dont really wanna get into it uh man
You guys are going laugh at me heres what happened. So I went out with her today for lunch, had a good talk for about an our or so, maybe a bit longer didnt keep track, dropped her home. So when we were out on our date, she said that shes only liked one guy in her entire life before, and it was some kid a year ago and ever since she stopped talking to guys completely and just doesnt trust them. She said im the only guy who shes ever even told this much info to and blah blah blah. Then we talked on the phone today for another 2 hours during the day, I mean seriously everything was seeming great, and everything was planning out great. Yet we havnt offically dating even close, we just "hung" out today i guess and etc. But today tonight we were online, and i was away from the comp, and some dude came in, who lives bout 10min from her, and they were talking. Well in muslim culture women cant marry non muslim guys, but muslim guys can marry non muslim women, idk dont ask me why. So this dude was mexican, and they were just talking and talking, I didnt seem much of it, i mean we're not officially dating yet or anything but I thought she'll have the decently to atleast hide this **** maybe. But as the guy was going offline, he goes, "hey ima message you my number just in case you ever need help," then shes like "no i dont want it." hes like you dont ever have to call, I know im not your type but just for the hll of it just have it. "shes like err ok but ill never call and ill prou lose it by tomm" and then ya he gave her number and end of story. Soon later she said she ahd to sleep, i didn't say anything cuz it was 2am and Ill call her tomm, but ya lol.
What was so shocking about that exchange between your girl and that Mexican dude? She said she didn't want his number. If she wanted his number then that would make you reconsider things if you were going out. I don't see what the commotion is. (btw...let me give her my number in case she needs some help..you know like homework help)
umm cuz she didnt have to take it? She said oh dont expect me to call you, the only time ill call you is if my house is on fire. Well obviously what are the chances of her house getting on fire? Slim to none so why get the number? Well im just going to her house tomm after school and going to talk to her about this and try to settle this bull**** out
Yea, but maybe she was just being polite. She told the Mexican dude two or three times she didn't want his number. He kept insisting. I think if you approach her about something like this it might blow up in your face. If it were me I wouldn't do anything or maybe joke about it with her. Never show a woman you are insecure about them talking to other guys.
Are you serious? You really think I should just forget about it? I mean she could've just kicked him off the room, and they were talking for about an hour as I was playing some GTA. I mean seriously you think I should just let it go? I mean she did insist like 4 times bout at the end of the day it was her choice right?
