Mmmhmm. Absolutely incorrect. I've met dozens. Some may, and some may not. But 4 days doesn't exactly let you know now, does it? Just date her. Worry about everything else later. MUCH later.
thanks i guess the main question is. Is it worth it? I mean im 19 and in college and im still in that youth stage where i wanna have fun, but at the same time i dont wanna past this up. maybe she'll give it up when she meets me err
I agree with the people who say you don't have to worry about her views on sex before marriage until you are "exclusive"...since until that point you still have the option to date other girls with different views. Thats one thing people do today that I don't understand....they "go steady" with someone after one date...or even before they go out with them. But there is no way to tell after 4 days, pic or no pic if she is worth "waiting for". It seems like there is enough mutual interest to think she is worth going out on a date with. Why not pursue that first.
lol shes seen a pic of me already and she said she remembers seeing me before. Shes scared the **** out of me with some of these comments: bananabread*** (2:17:30 AM): sooooo Ryohazuki148 (2:17:31 AM): soo do you have big plans for tomm bananabread*** (2:17:35 AM): yuh my parents are throwing me a grad party, at my cousins house Ryohazuki148 (2:17:44 AM): thats cool have fun bananabread*** (2:17:50 AM): i would invite you but they'll be gay and ask me why i invited non family guys, sometimes they piss me off. arg we should get married and move far away Ryohazuki148 (2:18:05 AM): lolwut idk about that
Wtf 4 days and marriage has came up. Smh Anyway link me to her myspace I'll put in a good word for you.
well, if she does decide to join here, you better get Clutch to delete this thread or she isn't going to talk to you after reading it. In fact, it may be too late already...
I know it has gotten to the point aroudn here that some might think Fatty's advice isnt worth listening to. Listen to him young man!! I was just talking to a friend of my daughter's....she is 15 and already claiming to be engaged. WTH!??! What is it with you kids these days.....wanting to get tied down at the earliest moment possible? Get out, enjoy life, enjoy being free and single. Save the attachment for later after you have had a chance to experience life. Dude...really. Just listen to Fatty, Fatty is your friend and can tell you exactly what NOT to do, he knows, he has screwed up enough to be wise in this area.
lol i never posted her entire aim, so negative and i might need to get clutch to delete this thread lol.
Before you do that you must. 1. Post more pics 2.Hand over her myspace link and aim But seriously keep talking to her but keep you some side chicks who you mess around with.
that has to be the funniest thing ive heard on BBS since ive joined, simply hilarious. and thanks for your advice
thats what im thinking about doing seroiusly, keep talking to her slowly for another couple of months and still party and have fun. Esp this fall im moving on campus at UH, so you know def that'll be fun. But at the same time i dont wanna lose this girl argg
Dude, you're way too young to be thinking about marriage. From what you have said, sex/marriage is a topic after 4 days and you don't think you could wait, correct? It's apparent you want to do the coitus, but I wouldn't rush into this. Especially after 4 days. Sounds like you have more of an infatuation with this girl. Let me ask you this, do you date quite a bit?
Date her. don't worry about marriage rigiht now. Just take it as it goes. If after dating you both feel you are ready for sex before you get married then it will happen, if not, then either you can end the relationship, or you can wait. You don't have to make a decision right now.
