So, have you had the PrOn talk with your wife/gf yet?

My gf watches p*rn with me

u jelly?

 

p*rn is yucky.

 

surely this does not apply to you, but IMO only an unsatisfied woman would care.

 

My wife knows I watch p*rn and whack off. She's never had issue with it. She will watch it with me on rare occasions, but I think it is less about being turned on by the p*rn and more about doing something "dirty". She doesn't get jealous and I honestly wouldn't get jealous of her getting off to some dude's baseball bat schlong on a p*rn vid. We both just kind of accept the reality that red-blooded humans are going to have natural, physical attractions to other people and as long as you don't ACT on it, there really isn't a problem.

That's not to say I could compliment a girl's ass that walks by at HEB or anything. There are limits. But we do have a reasonable understanding.

 

My GF claims she doesn't care.



I don't believe her seeing as she goes ape**** if I'm spending time with female friends without informing her.

 

if she doesn't like you watching it, she's insecure. Try getting her to watch it with you. p*rn isn't a curse word, btw.

 

I am very ashamed at how I acted about it 3-4 years ago in my first relationship (moes). I had a meltdown, and accused him of not being attracted enough to me, and felt that no good Christian should look at that kind of filth.

I'd like to think that my views were due to religion and the fact that it was my first relationship and I had insecurity issues.

Since then I've realized that p*rn is awesome!!! And a guy, even in a serious relationship, sometimes has to get his rocks off any way he can. (sometimes women too! though it seems us females enjoy different kinds of p*rn)

 

You got a keeper bro!

 

Wife knows and doesn't care. She watches with me sometimes.

 

Im one of the few people who rarely watches teh pr0n

 

Someone just put a hook in the water.

 

My only question is after she agrees to watch your favorite p*rn with you, will you agree watching her favorite p*rn with her? You know, the kind that probably involves two dudes getting it on with each other?

 

Wife doesn't care. On occasion she might watch with me. She also doesn't care if I comment on other women.
She used to not care at all if I went to a strip club either. But she goes through periods where she feels she's getting old, etc, and expressed she wouldn't like me to go as much. Fortunately I don't care for them much either but I go every once in a while for bachelor party or guy's night out.

 

WOW, and yet I've been told by people on this board and CFers in real life that I'm weird for liking that kind of stuff...looks like I'm not the only one.

 

Been married 5 years now and we both knew the others' views on p*rn before we even tied the knot (dated roughly 1.5 years before marrying).

 

First of all, how the hell did you get caught?? You gotta be more careful, man. I've never even come close to getting caught. (hint: it's all about unplugging the external hard drive when you're done...)

I'm sure my wife knows I do it. I joke with her that I have to do it 4 days a month (if you catch my drift) and I'm sure she knows that there's actually some truth to it. If she ever tries to push the issue, I'll play it off and say something like "you don't leave me with enough energy to beat off" and then quickly change the subject...

I don't think any self-respecting woman should have a problem with their guy occasionally beating off. As long as it doesn't become some kind of weird obsession (like it clearly is for some posters here) and/or replace having sex with her.

My wife also doesn't care at me looking at other women or even jokingly commenting about them. Some hot woman will walk by and I'll say something like "JEEE-sus...." then add "she's almost as hot as you." We both laugh and that's the end of it.

 

cleverly disguised 'I have donkey p*rn' thread

/Im married if your wife or gf can't stand your passion, and vigor for life then they won't appreciate you later. Don't be overt about your pron but make sure you get a girl that at least half way enjoys sex. Or you will have a sexless marriage ,and be watching even more p*rn. I have a friend with a sexless marriage ,and they decided to become swingers. He got a bj from 3 girls at once. he claims all that happened was some dude touched his wife boobs. Not sure if I buy that but hey csb