Now, what do you do if someone hot at work is interested in you, but you are married. She doesnt know becuase this is your new job.
You be a man and let her know right up front that you are married and that while you are flattered by her advances, they need to end immediately. Remember your wife will run into the same ****. How would you want her to handle the same situation?
Not much of an update to give. She didn't reply to my last response Monday, so as far as I'm concerned, unless she apologizes, she's persona-non-grata in my book. As I said, there are MUCH better ways to handle this than the way she did. Especially because I wasn't trying to make any moves on her. Like I said though, the whole thing just seemed so abrupt and out of nowhere. Last weekend she kisses me. Last week we text a few times on the phone. Very friendly at that time. Friday I ask if she wants to come out with us on Saturday. Saturday night, the **** hits the fan and she leaves. Then I send her that email, and she goes ballistic. A conundrum as far as I can tell. The only things I can see that caused it are minor. When she came into Pub on Saturday, I met her at the door. The place was packed. I said we should get a drink. Then I took her hand to follow me to the bar. She seemed miffed at that, also. Also, I took a girl home on Friday night, but I can't see how she would have known that, or cared about it if somehow someone told her. This whole past weekend was odd. I asked a girl out for last Saturday. She agreed. Then she didn't answer my call or text on Saturday. Then I asked another girl out this past Friday on Friday. She said that sounded great, and then didn't answer my text later that night or a follow up call on Sunday. Then Saturday night, I was with another girl at a friends house. We started making out and then she said she felt uncomfortable because she was kinda seeing another friend of mine. I've just had a bad woman run over the past couple of weeks.
Fatty, it sounds like the girls you're meeting know too many of your friends, know them too well, are hearing things about you, some combination of that, or you're just having a run of bad luck. You also might want to look over your gaming strategy. You're getting to first or second, but homeplate appears to be miles away. Maybe you're doing something you aren't aware of when trying to close the deal??
Well, three of the girls had mutual friends, but the other two didn't. And one of the three that knew some of my friends was the one I took home. I think it's a combination of bad luck, and possible rumours. Hell. I don't know. Women are a dime a dozen. That's why when you actually like one of them, you try a little harder, which inevitably fails. Oh well. Back to the drawing board.
Maybe if you weren't such a fat b*stard. (I'm 100% positive this joke has already been made in this thread...shut up, I'm bored)
Well, bad luck it is...We've all had that at one time or another...My guess is mutual friends are gossiping as one of the guys is spilling the beans to her to get in good with her...Women, the things we do for them...
