Here you go, kid: Ladder Theory. Everything the single man should know. You may now thank me profusely 89 times.
Yea, who needs Harlequin romance novels, Danielle Steele, and Lifetime? Clutchfans has made all of those things obsolete.
I just skimmed through this thread and didn't really read the OP, but how come nobody has said it. WE CANNOT GIVE YOU ADVICE IF YOU DON'T POST A PIC!
If you really wanted to tell her you should have done it before the status change. Why pursue a girl that is already claiming someone is already her man?
It doesn't make any sense, does it? Pretty much the exact opposite of what most rational-thinking guys would do. In other words, it's just a typical Clutchfans relationship thread.
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Sometimes I wonder if people who start threads like this are joking to try and make a creative thread.
I know it's funny to say it's serious if she puts it on Facebook, but it usually is serious at that point. A lot of people don't want to put that info out there unless they are sure. If she said she was with him and was "single" on facebook, or had no status, then you could argue she was't sure or may be open to moving on, but that's not the case. Have you ever kissed her? Gone on a romantic one on one date? Anything? It really sounds like she met you hoping for a BF and realized you were just a cool friend and now "hangs out" with you. You probably shouldn't be friends with her at all if you still want to be with her. You're stuck on the friend ladder and it's going to be extremely hard to not only get off of it, but then beat out a friend of a couple years when you've known her a month. Don't do it.
Something about Master Baiter talking about sloppy seconds sounds so wrong yet so right. True dat. Help us help you on deciding whether she's worth embarrassing yourself over as second fiddle. At least send us the link to her dating profile. That's public domain.
I would gauge her interest in this other guy before saying anything to her about your feelings. If she's completely into him, and seems happy with their relationship, then there's no reason to pour salt in another man's game. However, if you can sense a little hesitation on her part about the whole situation, then by all means, slide in there and let your intentions be known.
When does this guy leave town? You should be covertly following them around so that you can one up him.
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