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Should I pursue this girl?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by H-Town Info, Mar 7, 2011.

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  1. v3.0

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    She sounds like a slut...go for it, this might be the easiest nookie you'll ever c*m across.
     
  2. H-Town Info

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    In a relationship with such and such.


    I just texted her to meet her tomorrow and doesn't know that what I'm going to say to her.
     
  3. got em COACH

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    Don't listen to your heart. Listen to your boner:cool:
     
  4. macalu

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    there's no quicker way to destroy a relationship than to pour your heart out to someone you're not in a relationship with.
     
  5. Surfguy

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    This is going to end badly. Good luck!

    You better be pretty damn special if you expect her to dump her new BF for you.

    Have you compared yourself against what he offers yet?

    My only wish is you could use a hidden cam and get the video of what happens uploaded here.
     
  6. Master Baiter

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    LOL, this is very accurate but sounds like it should be in a fortune cookie.
     
  7. rockets934life

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    I would put the ball in her court, worst thing she can say is that she wants to give it a shot with this dude and you move on. Now, this will probably make things uncomfortable so a friendship maybe out the window as well.
     
  8. REEKO_HTOWN

    REEKO_HTOWN I'm Rich Biiiiaaatch!

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    whatever you do, please update this thread:cool:

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  9. Dubious

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    1. If she was on a dating site then she was looking for a date, that means she did not feel exclusive with the long distance dude.

    2. My wife was in a long distance relationship when I met her. We became exclusive after she went to see him for Spring Break.

    3. Don't ever lie, don't ever beg. Be truthful, straightforward and confident. Tell her exactly what you are thinking and let it play out. If it doesn't go your way, don't let your ego get crushed, just move on.
     
  10. FranchiseBlade

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    I would be clear about your feelings but not pour out every detail. Just say that you were surprised about here meeting up with (guy's name) because you thought that she and you would have a good chance.


    Don't say more than that. That puts your feelings out there, and let's her know how you feel, and that if she wants to she can be in a relationship with you. But it doesn't get overly heavy without you guys even being in a relationship right now.
     
  11. heypartner

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    I'm almost in an identical situation, except for the met on a dating site part.

    My advice would be that it won't matter if you say something now or after he leaves. I would wait for him to leave. Give her her space. She'll appreciate that. It worked for me. Turns out, it doesn't really matter in a "long distance relationship" unless it's very serious. She'll want to have fun with you, too.
     
  12. H-Town Info

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    also i would like to add that she agree to be with me the day he leaves his visit with her. Me and her will probably spend most of the day together.
     
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    I was contemplating that after we spend most of the day together after he leaves and head back to her place to tell her how I feel.
     
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    If you look under similar threads, you see the topics "Hawt Paki Girl-on-girl-on-girl-(x19) Action!" and "Hell Yes! Girl-on-Girl action coming to Showtime! ".

    This is a sign. ;)
     
  16. rrj_gamz

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    Sometimes Online people are serial daters...looking for the bigger better deal...to each their own..But...

    if its just for fun, tell her...if you have feelings, you may have a chance for a great weekend, but nothing more, IMHO...

    Just go for it...
     
  17. Master Baiter

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    I bet he'll taste real good.
     
  18. moestavern19

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    Duh.

    Tell her you have a girlfriend you love very much and you can't see her anymore.


    Kids these days. Don't know ****.
     
  19. ima_drummer2k

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    So she wants to see you, but not until after her boyfriend leaves town...

    GOD, I love Clutchfans!
     
  20. Manny Ramirez

    Manny Ramirez The Music Man

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    OP,

    Your opening post talked about her wanting things to be "more than friends" with you. Then you mention the long distance relationship. With women you never know what is going through their minds, but she might be trying to tell you to hurry up and crap or get off the pot. The fact that you hesistated to tell her that you want something more than a friendship might have sealed it.

    All you can do is tell her how you feel. What do you have to lose besides your dignity? But honestly, if I was you, I move on to someone else as it sounds like she might be into playing games. Also, I would give up hope about remaining friends with her. Read this a long time ago and I believe it is true - unless you are Jerry and she is Elaine, there aren't many single men who are able to be friends with women that they are not in a relationship with.
     

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