Wow...From a sexual standpoint, it's easy for me to judge and think WTF are they thinking...How do you make sure they've orgasmed, felt good, etc...But from a cultural standpoint, I can buy it... I'm ok with the shower thing, especially if we've been at a smokey place, well, if I'm sober...hell, I have OCD tendencies and will be washing the sheets in the morning anyway...lol... Of course, I never dated a Japanese women, but if i did, I'd have to have her come to the Mexican side of things and get buck wild...That's just how I roll...
I'll echo what Fisher said, I thought the women liked to get freaky naughty over there judging by some of the videos I've seen. I'm talking about the "hard r" rated game shows I've seen. Crazy stuff.
They blur out the good parts, so it shouldn't come as too big a surprise about their cultural prudishness. As an aside, East Asian cultures are much more low key about their sexual appetite. Last month, there was this Edison Chen scandal that rocked the media outlets of China, Hong Kong, Singapore and Taiwan. Apparently posting nudie pics of starlets can land your ass in jail and cause the mafia to heavily consider axing a well known actor...
I always thought they were a bit more violent in bed. By violent I mean clamps on nipples and being bound in some elastic rope.
I've heard that Japan is the fetish capital of the world. They have specific fetish clubs for everything conceivable. This article from Radar Online talks about it. I'm not going to link the article since it has some NSFW pictures. To find the article, type in "Japan fetish" in Google search and it is the very first link. You can advance each page, by clicking on the picture itself. Its quite interesting.
It was the result of government censorship on their p*rn industry which led directors to come up with ways to make things more shocking. Sexual repression manifests in weird things. Like random monster tentacles.
If I tell you, eels and octopus, would that be better? Oh Japan... what have you done to my mind...... I wish I can unseen what I had bumped into on the internet.