I hope not EVER as well...But I am a father, and there will be no hesitation on my reaction to a obvious break in.
lol @ everyone acting like they know exactly how they would react in a situation like this. your fiance sounds bloodthirsty.
No, I didn't assume you started the conversation. I asked clean and simply "Who started the conversation?" That wasn't insinuating YOU did, was it? lol @ you psycho-analyzing the fiancé. This is what I assumed at first. I actually did think he came in to the house, was watching Everybody Loves Raymond, and said: "You know what, D-honey, I think we should get a GUN for self-defense. I want to shoot someone. What do you think? "