Thanks Falcons Talon, but I have a very strong back bone.. Some of these idiots posting don't bother me what so ever. If anything it's making me stronger.
In the name of the Father, and the Son and the Holy Sprit - Amen. Heavenly Father please......and also help Roc Paint in his journey to be with his son. Amen (See Swoly...was that so hard to figure out?)
bobrek, I know I don't have to point this out to you - but what he's really lacking is the understanding that just the sentiment alone that someone else cares about you and your situation and would even post a message indicating that they'd pray for you is more than half the act of caring. roc paint - hang in there and keep doing good for the community and yourself. I went through a divorce and had to fight hard to get my rights and keep my kids half the time. Couldn't imagine being without my kids (the primary reason I couldn't make it to any of these events) so I can't even fathom the internal agony that must cause you. just know that your boy is strong - both emotionally and physical - he's healthy - he's alive - his heart is beating and he's thinking of you. Continue to be the bigger person and focus on yourself and your son. Not on the negativity. Use facetime or Skype as an alternative for the moment and develop and even stronger bond with your child. That is what he needs more than anything.
Thank you bobrek! And thank God that I have a very loving and supportive wife... who is by my side through all of this.
i Best post yet...thank you! They have cut all of my contacts with him for over 2 years now. I was able to Skype him one time, but he didn't act himself at the time. He looked like a puppet who was scared half to death talking to me, and it broke me down. A very sad situation to say the very least.
write him letters and scan/save copies of them (if he doesn't get them now because of mom - you can give them to him in the future with proof. Not to make her look bad, to show him how much you cared and tried). Mail them and ask if he received. They can play games. They always do. You just have to have resolve, faith and let love show you the way. Don't get angry with the mother (to her face) or to the skeeze. Show what you have been showing everyone in the Houston community - that love, understanding and a little work go a long way. I'm proud to say that I now have a wonderful relationship with my ex-wife after fighting long and hard and using the kids as my(our) guiding light. No matter how bleak the situation - there is a lesson here for you that you must learn from. Godspeed to you.
You have wonderful advice studogg, and I know there is a plan in place. You may not see it, but you know in your heart you're being watched over.
What County and have any new orders been filed in the new state? Have you been making child support support payments to through the TX SDU or directly to the mother?
Harris when this first went down, but nothing has been filed in Kentucky...and I stoped making payments when she took him. I was first making cash payments, and then I started to smarten up, and started using money-orders.
We all agree you are in a terrible situation and that sucks, but there is no reason to harbor prejudice against an entire nationality because of a few bad eggs. That being said Swoly is a douche so I don't blame you.
