WTF is that about. I am a good person, married, with a family so I don't think this is anything I need to be worrying about.
At first I was like revenge sounds cool...I mean if someone steals a bunch of money and gets away with it, it'd be cool to get back at them. But then you kept telling more and more and more...and it's clear the only option is to get/stay away, physically and mentally. Seriously, if all you say is true, this girl isn't a slut, b****, crackhead, hoe or anything else....she is mentally insane. Literally. She has some serious issues going on upstairs. And now is not the time for you to be playing doctor or anything. She has already attempted to kill you in her own way. Do not mess around with the situation anymore. If "they" continue contacting you, it may be smartest to call the police, or a lawyer, but stay very very very far away from the situation. As a side note, while I can definitely see that it would be possible for all of this to happen without your knowledge, in most cases I imagine it would be pretty hard. HIV, miscarriages, cocaine addictions - surely there were signs. To me, it's not a matter of trust. It's how you internally evaluate someone and their actions. What I'm saying is, don't feel like you won't be able to trust anyone going forward. Trustworthy people certainly exist in the world. But take the experience and learn from it - what signs did you miss and know to avoid in the future.
you can win your money back in vegas and meet some women. if she really did steal some money from you, then get a lawyer. 4000. that aint chump change. are you tmac? jk
so remind me again how pride was evident in any of my posts. And are you a preacher?? Try to stay on topic next time instead of attacking others.
What he said...However, just remember, what comes around, goes around...I know that sounds like crap now, but you don't want to get in trouble because of this... If you still feel the need, just tea bag her or squirt on her like RKelly...
NOOO!!!! Don't give up the chocolate business, just close the factory, import some midgets, become a recluse, and print some golden tickets when you get up around retirement age.
I don't mean to interfere in your argument, but can you guys take this "offline" or outside, or somewhere else? Let's try to help our BBS brethren - emoreland.
I wanted to make a post to the thread starter about how I felt. I am sorry you had to come in here and play post police for finding something you didn't like. Go back out of the hole you crawled out of. My apologies to emoreland for Mr. Meowgi trying to derail your thread into preaching about what he feels is right and wrong about what others say. emoreland I hope everything works out for you. This is such a tough situation and as many have stated already the best thing is to just stay away from her. I feel for you especially considering the severity of her actions and what she was really trying to accomplish. Goes to show that waiting for marriage has paid off for you in many more ways than you could have thought. Keep up the faith and hopefully things will turn around in your life. Good things come to good people so just hang in there and eventually you will find someone that will be real and upfront with you instead of vengeful and deceitful. Good luck in the future especially with the women.
Don't give up on women. They're not all bad. The fact that you are a good person and did not warrant this, means that you might be due for some really good news. Life is strange and I do sometimes wonder about that karma thing. Best of luck.
You proposed and she didn't return the ring? Kinda what it sounds like to me. No matter what it is, revenge is only going to make things worse, and despite what would seem to make sense, you don't feel better afterwards. Best advice I ever got when it came to get over a relationship was to go crazy on the dating scene (I'm cleaning the real sentence up a bit). Worked like a charm for me. Evan
Like some others have said, the best thing to do is LET IT GO. Just write this whole thing off as a mistake and move on with your life. Consider yourself lucky that her bizarre plan didn't work and you're healthy. Your "revenge" comes by living a good life and doing the right thing.
if she messes with your mind than she wins. take a vacation. indulge yourself and you'll forget about her. if you go to vegas. stay at the hard rock, check out body english. eat some food at nobu. hang at the pool drink some pina colodas. head to the crazy horse at night.
I agree. Change your phone number at least. I would talk to the police and just say that an ex and her new boyfriend have been threatening you. They might suggest a restraining order. Bottom line: YOU ARE A GOOD MAN. Trust me there are lots of women that are desperately seeking a guy like you. Christian, Moral, gainfully employed, and after a relationship instead of sex.
Wow! So she told you she's a virgin but you found out she's a w****, she does hard drugs, she used you for money, and she wanted to give you AIDS... Tell me again why you didn't run away as far as you could from this girl the first chance you got?
