i'm sorry, but that's the Hiroshima of bomb dropings. you're a stronger person than i am, cause i'd have snapped the second i found out that was true.
Wow that was fast. I would recommend an original, one with pecans, and one with peanut butter? The peanut butter fudge tastes like Reeses pb cups.
Okay heres another. I bought her diamond earrings one time. There was even a thread on it; I was asking for advice on how to buy diamond earrings. Well I shelled out mega bucks for some. She sold them for cocaine. Oh and then complained that i didnt spend as much as SHE THOUGHT because apparently it didnt get her enough coke for her buck. Yes theres plenty more.
Damn emoreland, thats one of the more sinister non-battlefield stories I've ever heard. Aren't there laws in America, which could prosecute someone with the willfull attempt to spread such a disease?
Wow. Hang in there man ... like you said, there's a purpose to all this. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. You might think that you're being too soft and nice by turning the other cheek, but the truth is that it takes a lot more strength to not retaliate for all she done to you. It takes a real man to do that. Whatever you do, don't fail this test. It hurts now, but you'll be so glad you passed it later. That said, wow. You ought to be thanking God every day for delivering you from this witch.
I tried getting the money back..........most was for her school and some was just her stealing it from me. Well I went to the college and told them everything and they said that since i willingly did it at the time and that I didnt have her sign anything saying that she had to pay me back, im screwed. Another story.....she told me she was a virgin too.....and that we were both gonna wait. Well i did some snooping a while back and found out that she went and had an abortion so that i would never find out. Well according to her friend....(which i have some doubts about) she had no money to do this and basically had some guy that she was with at the time she was with me......"force her" into an early miscarriage. Apparently she had to be hospitalized because of the bleeding and so forth. Well i found out about it but couldnt get anyone to tell me what the heck was going on. Well she told me that she has irritable bowl syndrome (IBS) and that was her excuse. Ill let you know when im ready to tell more.
Dude.. i hope you found about all these things at once, because i cannot imagine a scenario where you could have found out about them incrementally and yet STILL kept in contact with her. if a girl ever did any ONE of these multiple things to me i would have kicked her out of my life for good.. how did this turn into such a laundry list? be forgiving.. not gullible..
Although these things happened at different times............yes I found out about everything over a couple days. I want everyone to know that i appreciate the emails and the support, i really love this board. I also want everyone to know that im not having anything else to do with her. It just hurts that I found this all out at once and everything makes sense with the weird things that I had no explanation for at the time it happened. Now thinking back, everything has been answered.
w-o-w let's be thankful that you are not with her because you seem like you've got your stuff together and she'd only bring you down. the bottom line is you got screwed. there's no point in being mad and there's no point in putting any of the blame on yourself. from what you've stated, this chick is messed up, and she'll get what's coming to her in due time. keep up man. it hurts now and you've wasted some time, but luckily, you're still alive (and hiv free!) and there's always tomorrow.
Oh also found out that she was really a year younger than she said she was. I had to register her for school and thats when i figured out that when i first met her............she had JUST turned 17 Oh the trouble I could have gotten into.
Don't feel bad about yourself (how could someone ever love me?) because someone lied/cheated/or stole on you... That is all abou them not you so don't take the burden on yourself.
Dude, she wanted to give you AIDS? That's seriously messed up, man. Glad you were able to avoid it. How old is she now?
Wait a minute - this girl is like 17 and already has the HIV virus!! Man, I missed some of the other stuff you said in this thread as I went to bed early last night but I did catch the HIV stuff. Yes, I am pretty sure you can sue someone for intentionally trying to get you AIDS. But you know man - revenge is something you should forget. I know it is hard and you have every right to be upset, but seriously why waste your time and energy on even THINKING about this chick? It is like some other people said - just be glad you got out when you did and that God has someone else in mind for you. This girl's day of reckoning will come some day in the future and I would venture that it is not going to be pretty for her. Yet, saying all of this does not make things easier for you. I'll pray for you, emoreland, if you want me to - hang in there buddy.
Manny, thank you.....I need all the prayers I can get right now. I never went to bed last night; just couldnt sleep.
I need to jot all of this down for my very own HBO special. emoreland - Two choices here, a) get over it or b) get even, THEN get over it. a) Go hook up with another girl. Blah, blah, you're saving yourself, do as much as you want with someone else short of losing your morals. b) Get back with her, tell her you want to sleep with her, get her naked, and then begin a verbal assault that will scar her mentally and emotionally for life. If you need some key ideas on this, not only can I help, I'm sure some of the BBS brethren can assist as well.
