I know it's been said, but apparently it needs repeating: She's a LIAR and a MAVS fan. Dude. Walk away...
I would be less worried about the lie, and more worried about the small insignificant detail that.....well....how can I phrase this.... SHE'S STILL MARRIED. Guess I'm kind of old fashioned that way.
Funny, we talked about this last night...her logic was that she shouldn't have to pay for it, but "now" realizes that's the only way it's going to get done... I just reiterated that she has to want to do this, regardless of whether we're together or not...She says she wants to and will start the paper work soon...I'll believe it when I see it...For now, i'll just have fun and not take things too seriously... I do think it's a formality as they're not together and have lived quasi divorced for the last 4 years, but it sure would make me feel a lot more comfortable to have this detail complete...
seems kinda shady to me. how expensive is it to draw up papers for divorce? if theyve been living separately then there shouldnt be a big fuss over dividing up property. she will also probably win child custody if she has had the kids for 4 yrs.
I hear ya...A friend of mine at work did one for a little over $300 but they agreed on everything...I can't imagine them not agreeing as there shouldn't be anything to split...but she says he can be a d*ck so I think that's why she's leary... And yes, ima, technically, she's still married, but its not like I'm wrecking their marriage as they've been separated for 4 years (or so I think) and living like they're divorced...she has visitation and child support papers (or so I think) so that's as close as divorced you can get...but I hear ya...
