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Relationships: Lying...

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by rrj_gamz, Jan 31, 2008.

  1. danny317

    danny317 Member

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    instead of "sorry, i lied" id text w/in "the lab results came back, im hiv positive... we shouldnt see each other anymore... good luck."

    then after a few weeks text her w/in "sorry, i lied"
     
  2. DonkeyMagic

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    well played
     
  3. Roxfan73

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    Confucius says if she swallows keep her around for a few more months and then dumb her. If she doesn't swallow well see if she'll do it at least once and then dumb her. Once a liar alway a liar.
     
  5. Shroopy2

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    Not sure the absolute best way to go about it. I DO know she herself should NOT expect to get easy treatment for doing that. That'd be the part that'd bug me, that in her mind she could say whatever and still halfway expect it not to mess up anything.

    If you forgive for that, its nothing a pre-nup wouldnt fix
     
  6. Jeremiah

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    Can't believe that I forgot this:

    This thread is useless without pics.
     
  7. rrj_gamz

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    Uh...no pics yet...I guess maybe after we break up..:)

    Just got back...She was married before and apparently never really got divorced...She has been separated from this guy for about 4 years...She said she had papers regarding weekends and child support but didn't have the money to get the divorce...So technically she's still "married" but he's living with another chick and they have kids...Smells of Jerry Springer...

    Is she a rocket fan? No, she's a mavs fan...

    Thanks for the comments..I feel better...I mean, I just kicked my boss and co-workers ass in racketball so life isnt' all bad...

    I guess I just don't want to say "hey, no problem, it's ok that you lied" b/c I think she'll think its ok to lie...I mean, it's not like, "hey, I really do have kids" or "hey, I'm really 5'11""...But I'm no hipocrit as I've lied before so hence, I just don't know...
     
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  8. Desert_Rocket

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    I don't think it is a lie. It sounds like she is living her life like she is divorced. Just because the dumb papers aren't signed and paid for doesn't mean she isn't divorced IMO.

    I would not sweat it. There are worse things she could have lied about, just keep your eyes open and forgive her for this one. Not a big deal.
     
  9. ima_drummer2k

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    rrj-gamz,

    Run away. Seriously. This is a HUGE red flag. Like I said, you've been through too much BS. You don't need this drama and neither do your kids.
     
  10. DonkeyMagic

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    over the course of 4 years she couldnt manage to finish a divorce ... :rolleyes:. BS. Even if she is telling the truth about that, why do you want a woman who cant get anything done, especially as SERIOUS as that! Think about all the little crap she never got around too.

    mavs fan?!

    cut bait and run
     
  11. rhadamanthus

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    A liar and a mavs fan.

    RUN AWAY
     
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  13. danny317

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    :mad:
     
  14. professorjay

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    Looks like you're got the upper hand in the relationship:

    GEORGE: Jerry, let me tell you something, "A man without hand is not a man." I got so much hand I'm coming out of my gloves. I got to thank Kramer.
     
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    This is how I feel.

    Except, techincally it is a lie.
     
  17. K mf G

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    sometimes god gives you sign in mysterious ways
     
  18. chow_yun_fat

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    stick with her and milk her for all the free sex you can get while it lasts.

    just try not to get emotionally attached and you'll be good.
     
  19. rrj_gamz

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    Great advice...I guess I'm trying not to rationalize why I should ignore it...Problem is, we're very great in bed...so maybe I'm not thinking with the right head...Who knows...

    Part of me agrees with Desert_Rocket, but again, maybe I'm just not thinkng straight..I mean, there are worse things to lie about, hence why I guess I'll always think there is something else, which there probably is...She hasn't met my kids and probably won't...I've met her kids but I just need to pull back a little and see how things go...

    She did go with me to the UofH game vs SMU and cheered for the coogs...But we started dating when the Cowboys started tanking so maybe I do need to cut and run... ;)
     
  20. AstroRocket

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    Holy f'n ***** man. Way to drop the bomb.
     

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