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[Relationships] Looks like my ex-fiancee is now cheating on her boyfriend with a girl

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Drexlerfan22, Sep 21, 2007.

  1. XxShadyPinkxX

    XxShadyPinkxX Member

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    That's fine, you don't have to post em.

    Just send em to me xxshadypinkxx@msn.com. K, thx. Bye!
     
  2. Drexlerfan22

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    Keep dreamin'... :p
     
  3. Rockets2K

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    but they are perfect for each other

    your ex is a girl who digs girls

    shadypink says she kinda digs girls

    match made in Hangout. ;)


    and then shadypink can thank me by sending me copies :cool:
     
  4. rrj_gamz

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    Nice thread...well, it was until I saw Rosie...There is nothing you can do for her, just realize some people think and act differently and if she wants to be a rug muncher, so be it...

    Good to hear your going out and dating...Things happen for a reason and finally a thread with pics...;)
     
  5. BigM

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    she could find a dude that looks more like a girl then that "lady" she's dating.
     
  6. AroundTheWorld

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    [​IMG]

    ...if you don't post the pictures NOW! :D
     
  7. Dubious

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    Raped? Bi? Cheating on her fiance'?

    Dude, there are things going on deep inside that girl's head that you wouldn't understand without a PHD in psychology. I would bet there are even more 'events' you don't even know about, possibly when she was a child. The human psyche is a fragile thing, self worth can be influenced by factors the self has no control over, it can be influenced by biological factors that conflict with accepted morals. It can adopt self destructive behaviors to punish it's own perceived inadequacies. Now that is a recipe downward spiral if I ever heard one, but it is within human nature.

    You can't save her, you can only understand that she is damaged. You can be there for her, but you have to keep enough distance that she doesn't drag you under too.

    And you are not the only one. My buddy's wife left him for a woman after they had a child. Her relationships were never stable and he had to be the primary parent with her only getting supervised visits. Consider yourself lucky and try to have fun dating; looking for an emotionally stable partner.

    And the obligatory:

    with a strap-onThat's a man, Baby!

    [​IMG]

    actually she kinda looks like a fun chick, maybe you should , ah, hang out with them some.
     
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  8. Refman

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    Does this mean we are all going to Vegas? :D
     
  9. Drexlerfan22

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    Update! Fun!

    ...and now she apparently "temporarily broke up" with the new BF so she could get it on with other people (particularly the chick below) while he's out of state, apparently.

    [​IMG]

    The guy's plenty pissed, naturally. I almost feel sorry for him. Almost.

    She just keeps giving me reasons to wonder how I was ever engaged to her...
     
  10. Deckard

    Deckard Blade Runner
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    Hey, at least with you she left for another guy, instead of a chick. (not that there's anything wrong with that!) An old friend of mine, back in the early '70's, had really fallen for a girl and had been going out with her for months. She dumped him for a chick. He was bummed about it for a long time. Did a number on his "male ego." So it could have been worse, Drex. ;)
     
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  11. Space Ghost

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    Would she hit this?

    [​IMG]
     
  12. percicles

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    She needs 2 watch A Shot at Love.
     
  13. AroundTheWorld

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    Please go ahead! :cool:
     
  14. Drexlerfan22

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    I dunno... in a way I kinda disagree with that. At the very least, there are pros and cons.

    I kinda feel like if she had left me for a chick, it mighta been easier... not as personal, in a way. Because, hey, I don't have a p***y, and I never will. If p***y is what she figured out she craved, I'm never gonna be able to help her out in that department. So looking at it like that, it's not really about me, it's just about a physical aspect I have no control over. Leaving me for another guy implies there's something fundamentally wrong with me though, which I think bothered me more than a physical difference would've.

    However, this kinda proves to me that that wasn't it. Apparently she took this dude for a test drive to make sure it wasn't just me specifically that was the problem, figured out it wasn't, and then decided that she must just like chicks. Plus, she's just an immediate gratification kinda gal. She broke up with me as soon as we were in different states for a couple months, and she broke up with this guy as soon as he went out of state for awhile. I'm sure it didn't help that when I was with her I was working 65 hours a week and looking more toward the future than I was thinking about the here and now.

    As was said earlier, she may say she's bi, but I'd bet good money that she's actually a lesbian, and has just been conditioned to think she likes guys.

    Oh no, not this again... do you guys actually have some kinda p*rn radar or something? :p :D
     
  15. Lynus302

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    [attempt to be serious]Spot on. I couldn't have said it better myself, and I've been a counselor for the past 4+ years.[/attempt to be serious]

    And I've got to suggest NOT posting the pr0n. No reason to damage the girl more than she already is.[ducks for cover]
     
  16. Dubious

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    I wrote that?
    I must have been so high.

    Really though, the percentage of American women that have been molested in some form as children is staggering And usually it is someone they know. It's no wonder you run into so many girls with sex 'issues'.

    If I were female, I would definitely be lesbian.
     
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  17. Drexlerfan22

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    As you can see from my previous posts, I never even considered it. :)

    ...so would I, but I think perhaps as men we're a bit biased. :D
     
  18. Dubious

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    I meant it in the more 'why put up with misogynist, screw and snore, selfish looking for a submissive' sense.

    Men are pigs. Well, at least I am and I am probably more sensitive to women than most. I'd still pok'er pooper even though I know it's more about dominance than actual tactile sensation. I still think you ought to post a link to a NSFW photo file....see I'm a pig.
     
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  19. Lady_Di

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    Wow! All of this cheating makes me sad. :(

    Well, at least you weren't married to her. Imagine, if you were married to her...talk about castration..

    Speaking of people with psychological issues, my last dude had three women(including me)...there are some days that I feel sorry for him because I believe he do have some psychological issues that he cannot handle on his own. He has not left me alone and it has been almost a month. He needs help but I don't want to get him some help because he will NEVER be out of my life. He doesn't want to let me go. It is like a ping-pong between us...if his ex tells him **** off then he will bother me and if i tell him **** off/ignore him then he leaves me alone and bothers her...vice versa. I have been so mean to him and then I read this thread...makes me feel bad because he does have problems and I should not be spiteful. =/

    why are people so screwed up?
     
  20. Blake

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    no offense meant, because I really don't know much about you or your situation, but it seems to me that it's not about someone being screwed up or having problems, it's that some people are so selfish they only care about themselves and their desires. All they care about is what they want, and they do not give any consideration about the feelings of the person that they claim to care about. Horrible and no way do they deserve pity
     

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