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Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Outlier, Dec 20, 2010.

  1. Tree-Mac

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    It is a mistake to get into serious relationship at a young age. When I was your age (well, 23), I didn't just get into a serious relationship...I got married. The grass is not greener over here.
     
  2. Outlier

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    So at what point should I START acting suspicious? Anyone with experience?
     
  3. Harrisment

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    Probably at the moment you walk in and find her getting worked on by a world-class cocksmith.
     
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  4. GRENDEL

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    You shouldn't be in a relationship if you don't have enough self-confidence to constantly be worrying that your significant other is running around. It's perfectly normal for the thought to pop up in your head every now and then but please... grow a pair. If she cheats on you, dump her. I would begin to worry if she gets really distant and/or starts talking about other guys. Until then, bury the thoughts.
     
  6. stipendlax

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    Wow.

    Sorry to be the one to tell you this... but this relationship is headed for disaster. Buckle up, you're in for a rough one.
     
  7. Outlier

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    What's so wrong with checking her e-mail? She gave me the password anyway. And she knows my password for FB as well. So it was fair...
     
  8. Fyreball

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    DUDE. Give the girl her SPACE. What's wrong with checking her E-Mail?!? EVERYTHING. Chances are, if she's not cheating on you, she will eventually because this whole low self-esteem schtick you've got going is going to wear REALLY thin on her. Girls don't want a namby-pamby guy who questions why she's with them every second of the day. She's with you because she LIKES you. It's done. Now is the easy part. Like I said earlier.....RELAX. Have fun with her. Be confident that YOU'RE the guy she wants, and don't worry about what she does on her OWN time. Let her know that when she's with you, that's the best time of her life. That's it.
     
  9. Rashmon

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    I gave you the answer before: important relationship study
     
  10. Manny Ramirez

    Manny Ramirez The Music Man

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    Somehow, I can picture "McGrady" being the dude on the couch:

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  11. El Hitman

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    Here's my 2 cents.


    First off women hate insecure men, all the nagging and complaining isn't helping. It's a huge turnoff for them. So stop. The best thing you can do at this point is find a way to reinvent yourself. IF she is "looking around" and that's "IF", maybe she's gotten tired of you...there's plenty of guys out there looking for a lonely hot chick. Join the gym, take up mountain biking, find a hobby. She'll notice, and maybe she'll remember why she's with you. Try taking her somewhere new, flamenco dancing at Mi Luna or belly dancing at Agora's, the ****ing cirque du soleil whatever. If she doesn't notice and you still don't see any changes then dump her. :eek:
     
  12. bladeage

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    Hitman is right.. you should take up a combat sport. b****es love that ****.

    That way, she is gonna think you're hotter... plus she will be scared you will beat any dude's ass who comes around, or even her ass.
     
  13. Invisible Fan

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    Poke a hole in your condoms and get her pregnant.


    Happily evar aftar.
     
  14. bladeage

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  15. GlenRice

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    I don't mind sharing my girl, I really don't.
     
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  17. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    By checking her email everyday, you already act suspicious. In justifying this, would you be O.K. with her opening your personal correspondence? After all, she already knows your name and address.
     
  18. tmacfor35

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    Does she act different toward you than before or give you any reason too feel the wag you do?
     
  19. bladeage

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    ?? any updates
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