Relationship Issues (Jealousy) Please Help Clutchfans

This is an easy one. Convince yourself that if something did happen, it wouldn't be the end of the world (and it wouldn't) and that you would move on and find another girl. Then you'll be able to go about your daily life.

Here's the rub. You can't do much to get her not to cheat but what you're doing now will definitely make her cheat.

 

Honestly dude, from the posts I've read, you probably won't last too long with her. It sucks to hear, but better prepare for it now. I think you're insecurities will scare her away eventually.

Enjoy the free secks as much as you can before she flies away.

 

I'm starting to wonder if the OP is a successful troll. Seems almost too much.

 

I'm also thinking the same thing.

 

OK man I am going to help you out. Honestly I don't know if its too late for this relationship, but either way you need to watch and study this ASAP! If you really immerse yourself into it, it will change your life.

Download David DeAngelo Material and look for this particular program

1. Deep Inner Game

Read this http://www.doubleyourdating.com/deepinnergame/

You can get it free on any good torrent site. It is a lot of psychology and can get boring sometimes but trust me if anyone needed it its you.

If you like that there are lots of other programs you could check out. This is not a pick-up guide. This program will help you changed your screwed up perspective on dating and life in general. Good luck man.

 

You love her. She says she loves you. But you will drive her away with your jealousy. You will make it come true or make her end it all together. Or maker it come true and then she'll realize she shouldn't be with you.

Start being a tad cocky or really just confident. You need to make yourself be fine when she isn't with you. Then when she is be strong calm and sure of yourself. Know that if she is the one you really want and that she feels the same. Give her some space but let her know that you want her (the key is not to let her know in a needy clingy way, but in a self assured way.) Don't let her know that you want her too soon though. She already does. Just force yourself to be confident around her. Try and be jokey and clown around with her. Surely she has some silly habits or things she does. Try and poke fun of those in a good natured way. It shows you are able to be at ease. If you accidentally do something to make her mad or upset her, find out what, but don't panic and think she's going to be unfaithful because of it.

After a while pretending to be confident around her may help you to really feel more confident. She will appreciate it. Watch some Cary Grant movies like His Girl Friday, or The Awful Truth. His girl in both of those movies was about to get married. But he joked around and was confident. It may sound cheesy but it's a good guide.

The thing you need is to step back and realize that your jealousy isn't rational at this point. Try and take a detached view. If you keep putting pressure on her she's going to feel like she's letting you down, and that pressure she puts on herself will force her to break it off if not something worse. Because other guys aren't putting any pressure on her and she can relax and have fun around them.

 

Dude, you're only 22. This is prime time for you. Why waste these years away in a relationship when you should be out chasing every piece of tail that you can?

 

Here's some advice. Man up.

 

Ugly hoes cheat too.
Jealousy is a bad cancer, if you can't control it it will continue to control you and she WILL be long gone.

 

You're a ****ing idiot coming on ClutchFans to ask this question. You should know all you're gonna get are not serious answers. Might as well go on Yahoo answers.

 

this thread shoudl have ended right HERE. Harrisment nailed it.

your first mistake was starting a thread here

your second mistake is taking anything Ronnie posts seriously.

Now...read the reply I quoted above till you "get it".

What you need is a major maturity transplant.....kids

 

It sounds like you have self esteem issues at hand because if you have never caught her cheating before and she claims she is not, then you have to give her the benefit of the doubt that is part of being in a relationship.

Really if you can't trust her, you need to break up because she is NEVER going to be around you all the time.

And Yes settling for someone lower than you could actually help your self-esteem issues, because that is what this sounds like to me.

 

Ugh, nothing is worse than that. I wonder about some of the people posting questions there and some of the responses.

 

Not really a whole lot to add here other than this:

There's a saying that the person that shows the LEAST interest in a relationship has the MOST power. You need to move on and find someone else and remember the saying I just told you. Doesn't mean you should be a jerk or an ass but that you be a man and not a clingy girl (which is the way you are acting).

 

pics are needed in order to give sound advice

 

You're looking at this wrong. You're the guy who's got the girl every guy wants to be with. Take confidence in that and treat her like she deserves to be treated.

 

my pilot friend got his girlfriend a job with Continental as a Flight Attendant.
one random day on the tarmac, a male coworker is telling my friend about some sweet Stewardess poon he is getting on the side. My friend is asking his coworker for more details and is laughing about it like guys do, until the guy drops his girlfriend's name on him...

LOL hopeless

 

is this the same girl you supposely knocked up a few threads back but a miracle came and it was defuse? Something along the line you don't see a future with her and the baby and now you're the one being jealous? hmmm

 

I don't think McGrady wants any solid advice here. He wants a b**** session.

Just remember to wash your d!ck off in the sink after you tap that. Gotta play it safe- don't want any strange pilot disease.